Thursday, November 18, 2021

Success - from October 14th

 Success comes from curiosity, concentration, perseverance and self-criticism.

Albert Einstein

Be not the slave of your own past – plunge into the sublime seas, dive deep, and swim far, so you shall come back with new self-respect, with new power, and with an advanced experience that shall explain and overlook the old. Ralph Waldo Emerson

"There is nothing noble in being superior to your fellow men. True nobility lies in being superior to your former self."
Ernest Hemingway
 
Always searching, never there
Every day the opportunity to try to be better than we were yesterday

Cheers
Jeanne

Plant Trees - from October 21st

 "Trees are alive, so we react to them in very different ways. Quite often, we get attached to a tree .... It is such a friendly thing. When you plant a tree and you see it grow, something happens to you. You want to protect it, and you value it."

Wangari Maathai

Today's quote is taken from a speech (copied below) by Wangari Maathai titled Speak Truth to Power
I came across The Green Belt Movement, founded in 1977 by Wangari Maathai, while looking for tree planting initiatives around the world. As I read about the organization I became intrigued to learn more about Wangari and thus discovered her Memoir; Unbowed. 
From the publisher: "Unbowed is the moving and inspirational memoir of the first African woman, and the first environmentalist, to win the Nobel Peace Prize, Wangari Maathai. Unbowed charts Maathai's development from a young girl in British Kenya to a divorced mother of three fighting to save her country from a dictator and his corruption"

Some more Wangari Maathai quotes:

"What People See As Fearlessness Is Really Persistence. Because I Am Focused On The Solution, I Don't See The Danger."

“We are called to assist the Earth to heal her wounds and in the process heal our own.”
"The environment and the economy are really two sides of the same coin. If we cannot sustain the environment we cannot sustain ourselves" 

“You cannot protect the environment unless you empower people, you inform them, and you help them understand that these resources are their own, that they must protect them.” 

"It's the little things citizens do. That's what will make the difference. My little thing is planting trees"

The Green Belt Movement (GBM) is an environmental organization that empowers communities, particularly women, to conserve the environment and improve livelihoods. GBM was founded by Professor Wangari Maathai in 1977 under the auspices of the National Council of Women of Kenya (NCWK) to respond to the needs of rural Kenyan women who reported that their streams were drying up, their food supply was less secure, and they had to walk further and further to get firewood for fuel and fencing. GBM encouraged the women to work together to grow seedlings and plant trees to bind the soil, store rainwater, provide food and firewood, and receive a small monetary token for their work.)


Speak Truth to Power

By Wangari Maathai
Speak Truth to Power
May 4, 2000

This article is taken from Speak Truth to Power, a book on activists around the world and edited by Kerry Kennedy. The book has become an organisation that fights for human rights around the world.

Throughout Africa (as in much of the world) women hold primary responsibility for tilling the fields, deciding what to plant, nurturing the crops, and harvesting the food. They are the first to become aware of environmental damage that harms agricultural production: if the well goes dry, they are the ones concerned about finding new sources of water and those who must walk long distances to fetch it. As mothers, they notice when the food they feed their family is tainted with pollutants or impurities: they can see it in the tears of their children and hear it in their babies’ cries.

Wangari Maathai, Kenya’s foremost environmentalist and women’s rights advocate, founded the Green Belt Movement on Earth Day, 1977, encouraging the farmers (70 percent of whom are women) to plant “Green Belts” to stop soil erosion, provide shade, and create a source of lumber and firewood. She distributed seedlings to rural women and set up an incentive system for each seedling that survived. To date, the movement has planted over fifteen million trees, produced income for eighty thousand people in Kenya alone, and has expanded its efforts to over thirty African countries, the United States, and Haiti.

Maathai won the Africa Prize for her work in preventing hunger, and was heralded by the Kenyan government and controlled press as an exemplary citizen. A few years later, when Maathai denounced President Daniel arap Moi’s proposal to erect a sixty-two-story skyscraper in the middle of Nairobi’s largest park (graced by a four-story statue of Moi himself), officials warned her to curtail her criticism. When she took her campaign public, she was visited by security forces. When she still refused to be silenced, she was subjected to a harassment campaign and threats. Members of parliament denounced Maathai, dismissing her organisation as “a bunch of divorcees.” The government-run newspaper questioned her sexual past, and police detained and interrogated her, without ever pressing charges. Eventually Moi was forced to forego the project, in large measure because of the pressure Maathai successfully generated.

Years later, when she returned to the park to lead a rally on behalf of political prisoners, Maathai was hospitalised after pro-government thugs beat her and other women protesters. Following the incident, Moi’s ruling party parliamentarians threatened to mutilate her genitals in order to force Maathai to behave “like women should.” But Wangari Maathai was more determined than ever, and today continues her work for environmental protection, women’s rights, and democratic reform. From one seedling, an organisation for empowerment and political participation has grown many strong branches. — Kerry Kennedy

The Green Belt Movement in Kenya started in 1977, when women from rural areas and urban centers, reflecting on their needs at organised forums, spoke about environmental degradation. They did not have firewood. They needed fruits to cure malnutrition in their children. They needed clean drinking water, but the pesticides and herbicides used on farms to grow cash crops polluted the water.

The women talked about how, a long time ago, they did not have to spend so much time going out to collect firewood, that they lived near the forest. They spoke of how, once, they ate food that sustained their health. Now, while the food does not require much energy to grow, it does not sustain them. The women feel their families are now very weak and cannot resist diseases, that their bodies are impoverished because of an environment that is degraded.

The National Council of Women, a nongovernmental organisation, responded by encouraging them to plant trees. In the beginning it was difficult because the women felt that they had neither the knowledge, the technology, nor the capital to do this. But, we quickly showed them that we did not need all of that to plant trees, which made the tree-planting process a wonderful symbol of hope. Tree-planting empowered these women because it was not a complicated thing. It was something that they could do and see the results of. They could, by their own actions, improve the quality of their lives.

When we said we wanted to plant fifteen million trees, a forester laughed and said we could have as many seedlings as we wanted because he was convinced that we could not plant that many trees. Before too long, he had to withdraw that offer because we were collecting more trees than he could give away free of charge. But we didn’t have the money. We decided that we could produce the seedlings ourselves. We would go and collect seeds from trees, come back and plant them the way women did other seeds: beans, corn, and other grains. And so the women actually developed forestry management techniques, using “appropriate technology” to fit their needs. Here is the basic method: take a pot, put in the soil, and put in the seeds. Put the pot in an elevated position so that the chickens and the goats don’t come and eat the seedlings.

Ordaining all the inventive techniques that the women developed. For example, sometimes trees produce seeds carried by the wind. These germinate in the fields with the first rain. It was very interesting to see a woman cultivating a field with a small container of water. But, she was cultivating weeds! She had learned that among these weeds were also tree seedlings, and that she could pick the seedlings and put them in a container. In the evening, she went home with several hundred seedling trees! These techniques developed by the women became extremely helpful. We planted more than twenty million trees in Kenya alone. In other African countries, we have not kept records.

Trees are alive, so we react to them in very different ways. Quite often, we get attached to a tree, because it gives us food and fodder for our fires. It is such a friendly thing. When you plant a tree and you see it grow, something happens to you. You want to protect it, and you value it. I have seen people really change and look at trees very differently from the way they would in the past. The other thing is that a lot of people do not see that there are no trees until they open their eyes, and realise that the land is naked. They begin to see that while rain can be a blessing, it can also be a curse, because when it comes and you have not protected your soil, it carries the soil away with it! And this is rich soil in which you should be growing your food. They see the immediate relationship between a person and the environment. It is wonderful to see that transformation, and that is what sustains the movement!

We have started programmes in about twenty countries. The main focus is how ordinary people can be mobilised to do something for the environment. It is mainly an education programme, and implicit in the action of planting trees is a civic education, a strategy to empower people and to give them a sense of taking their destiny into their own hands, removing their fear, so that they can stand up for themselves and for their environmental rights. The strategy we use is a strategy that we call the “wrong bus syndrome,” a simple analogy to help people conceive what is going on. People come to see us with a lot of problems: they have no food, they are hungry, their water is dirty, their infrastructure has broken down, they do not have water for their animals, they cannot take their children to school. The highest number of problems I have recorded at a sitting of about a hundred people is one hundred and fifty. They really think we are going to solve their problems. I just write them down, but I am not going to do anything about them. I just write them down in order to give the people a feeling of relief and a forum where they can express their problems.

After we list these problems, we ask, “Where do you think these problems come from?” Some people blame the government, fingering the governor or the president or his ministers. Blame is placed on the side that has the power. The people do not think that they, themselves, may be contributing to the problem. So, we use the bus symbol (because it is a very common method of transportation in the country). If you go onto the wrong bus, you end up at the wrong destination. You may be very hungry because you do not have any money. You may, of course, be saved by the person you were going to visit, but you may also be arrested by the police for hanging around and looking like you are lost! You may be mugged—anything can happen to you! We ask the people, “What could possibly make you get on the wrong bus? How can you walk into a bus station and instead of taking the right bus, take the wrong one?” Now, this is a very ordinary experience. The most common reason for people to be on the wrong bus is that they do not know how to read and write. If you are afraid, you can get onto the wrong bus. If you are arrogant, if you think you know it all, you can easily make a mistake and get onto the wrong bus. If you are not mentally alert, not focussed. There are many reasons.

After we go through this exercise, we ask them to look at all the problems that they have listed. Why are we hungry? Why are we harassed by the police? We cannot hold meetings without a license. When we look at all of this, we realise that we are in the wrong bus. We have been misinformed for too long. The history of Kenya in the last forty years explains why.

During the Cold War period, our government became very dictatorial. There was only one radio station that gave out controlled information and our country was misinformed. Because the government was so oppressive, fear was instilled in us, and we very easily got onto the wrong bus. We made mistakes and created all of these problems for ourselves. We did not look at the environment and decide to plant trees, so our land was washed away by the rain! The beautiful topsoil was lost. Maybe we were not fully focussed, suffered from alcoholism, or were not working, but our personal problems had nothing to do with government. We got on the wrong bus and a lot of bad things happened. What we needed to do was to decide to get out, only to make the best of the situation you find yourself in.

You need to take action. You have to inform yourself. And you are willing to inquire; you are willing to learn. That is why you came to the seminar. You want to plant, you want to empower yourself. You have every right to read what you want to read. You want to meet—without asking permission. To get off the bus means to control the direction of your own life.

We say to go ahead and start to plant trees. Grow and produce enough food for your family. Get in the food security project, making sure that you plant a lot of indigenous food crops so that we do not lose local biodiversity. We are working in the tropics so the trees grow very fast. In five years, or less, you can have fruit trees, like banana trees. You can go and teach others what you have learned here so that you will have educational outreach in the village. We will support you, so that you can encourage others to get off the bus. You can get a small group of people to protect a park or a forest or an open space near you. Environmental protection is not just about talking. It is also about taking action.

People who live near the forest are among the first to see that the forest is being destroyed. People who live near water resources are the ones who notice that these springs are being interfered with. People who are farmers recognise that the soil is being exposed and carried away by the rains. These are the people who should be the ones to draw attention to these problems at the local and national levels.

And this is the process I have seen with the Green Belt Movement. Women who start to plant trees on their farms influence their neighbors. The neighbors eventually become involved. At the national level, we have been able to draw the attention of the parliament, and even the president, to the need to protect the environment! And now, we see the government reacting to what the environmentalists are saying: that the remaining forest not be degraded, that open spaces not be privatised, and that the forest not be interfered with or privatised. This pressure is coming from ordinary people. We started by empowering women. Then the men joined in because they saw that the women were doing some very positive work.

A lot of men participate in the planting, though not in the nurturing of the seedlings at the nursery as the women do (and do very well). The men see trees as an economic investment. They look thirty years into the future and see that they will have huge trees to sell. Well, nevertheless, it means that the Green Belt Movement enjoys the participation of men, women, and children, which is important. You could very easily have the women planting trees and the men cutting the trees down! Everyone needs to work together and to protect the environment together.

When you start doing this work, you do it with a very pure heart, out of compassion. Listen to the statement from our pamphlet: “The main objective of this organisation is to raise the consciousness of our people to the level which moves them to do the right things for the environment because their hearts have been touched and their minds convinced to do the right things, because it is the only logical thing to do.”

The clarity of what you ought to do gives you courage, removes the fear, gives you the courage to ask. There is so much you do not know. And you need to know. And it helps you get your mind focussed. Now, you are out of the bus and moving to the right direction. They will see you move with passion, conviction, and persistence. You are very focussed. Quite often you threaten people, either people who are on the wrong bus or people who are driving others, because you know they are driving people in the wrong direction and you are asking them not to follow. And now you feel free to tell people, “Believe me, you are all moving in the wrong direction, your leader as well.” Now, of course, a leader does not want to be told this. He certainly does not want to hear that the people he is driving, are being told they need to get out of the bus. This is where the conflict comes in. The leader accuses you of misleading his people, misrepresenting his vision, misrepresenting what he’s trying to do, misrepresenting him.

This is what happened between me and President Moi. In 1989, the president wanted to take over Uhuru Park, the only park left in Nairobi. He was going to build the highest building in Africa, sixty-two stories. Next to the skyscraper he was going to put a four-story statue of himself (so you could pat his head from the fourth floor). All of downtown Nairobi would have had to be restructured.

That building would have been so intimidating, that even if some land in the small park remained, no one would have dared come near it. Very intimidating. So it was completely wrong. It also would have been an economic disaster, as was borrowing money to do it, putting us in greater debt. It was truly a white elephant. But he wanted it because it was a personal aggrandisement.

And so we raised objections, and said this was the only park that we had in the city where people who have no money could come. Not even a policeman could ask you to move; it was an open space. A lot of people joined in and agreed, even those people who were going to invest, who then decided that it was probably not a very good idea.

We staged a protest in the park and were beaten by the police. We were only a small group of women, because, at that time, in 1989, there was a lot of fear. I had taken the matter to court, arguing that this park belonged to the people and that it could not be privatised. The president was only a public trustee, so for him to now go and take what had been entrusted to him, to take it, and privatise it, was criminal. We lost the case, which in the court meant that we had no business raising the issue and complaining about the park. But we won in the end because those who were providing the money withdrew, due to the outcry from the public. And members of parliament actually suspended business to discuss the Green Belt Movement and myself, recommending that the Green Belt Movement should be banned as a subversive organisation. They did a lot of dirty campaigning to discredit us, including dismissing us as, “a bunch of divorcĂ©es and irresponsible women.”

Well, I gave them a piece of my mind, that people kept talking about for the rest of the time. “Whatever else you may think about the women who run the Green Belt Movement,” I said, “we are dealing here with privatising or not privatising a public park. We are dealing with the rights of the public and the rights of the people. These are the kind of issues that require the anatomy of whatever lies above the neck.” The press loved it. Parliament was just being mean, chauvinistic, and downright dirty. Fortunately, my skin is thick, like an elephant’s. The more they abused and ridiculed me, the more they hardened me. I know I was right, and they were wrong.

A few years later, in 1992, with about ten women whose sons had been detained for demanding more democratic rights for the people, I went back to the same park and declared it “freedom corner.” We stayed there for four days. By the fifth day the government brought in policemen; some of us were very badly beaten. But I will always remember the power of those women. After we were disrupted by the police, I ended up in the hospital, so I didn’t even know what was going on. The other women were herded into cars and forced to go back to where they had come. But the following day, those women came back to Nairobi and tried to locate the others. They knew some were in the hospital, and sent a message that they were waiting for us. They would not go home. Instead, they went to the Anglican provost of All Saint’s Cathedral who told them they could go to the crypt and wait for the other women. Though the provost thought this would be a two-night stay, it lasted for one year. They stayed in that crypt, waiting for Moi to release their sons. The authorities tried everything to get the women to leave. They tried to bribe some of them; intimidated them; even sent some of their sons to persuade their mothers to leave. Several times we were surrounded by armed policemen, who threatened to break the doors of the church and to haul us out. Fortunately they never did, because some of these soldiers were Christians, and we could hear them say they just could not break into the church.

And we won again! It was a great ceremony to see those young men come out of jail and also to celebrate the powers of their mothers. It was really wonderful. I was amazed that they were so strong. It goes to show that you can have a very oppressive government, but even in very dark times in our nation, there were people who stood up to protect the rights of others.

There was another time when the pro-democracy movement pushed the president very far. Rumors started circulating that he was going to turn the government over to the army. And so we issued a statement saying that if he felt there was a need for change in the government (which we were demanding), what we wanted was a general election, but not to turn over power to the army, because this was not democratic.

Instead of responding, he arrested us for inciting people to violence. I went into my house and locked myself in because I was so convinced that no one could get me out—it had been so reinforced for security. Unless I became hungry, I had enough to last me for a month. They surrounded the house with guns and it was very, very scary. I was one woman alone. After three days, they broke into the house, literally cutting the windows so that they could reach me, and they hauled me to jail. That was 1993, when we were really breaking loose from a very strong dictatorship.

Courage. I guess that the nearest it means is not having fear. Fear is the biggest enemy you have. I think you can overcome your fear when you no longer see the consequences. When I do what I do, when I am writing letters to the president, accusing him of every crime on this earth, of being a violator of every right I know of, especially violating environmental rights and then of violence to women, I must have courage.

You know, when they attack me, I say this is violence against women. When they threaten me with female genital mutilation, this is violence against women. When they attack me, I attack them back. A lot of people say, “They could kill you.” And I say, “Yes, they could, but if you focus on the damage they could do, you cannot function. Don’t visualise the danger you can get in. Your mind must be blank as far as danger is concerned.” This helps you to go on. You look very courageous to people—and maybe you are courageous. But it is partly because you cannot see the fear they see. You are not projecting that you could be killed, that you could die. You are not projecting that they could cut your leg. If you do that, you stop. It’s not like I see danger coming, and I feel danger. At this particular moment, I am only seeing one thing—that I am moving in the right direction.

Cheers
Jeanne


Listen and shush - from October 28th

 “Just because you don't understand it doesn't mean it isn't so.”

Lemony Snicket, The Blank Book

Here's my thoughts:

Listen, 
and when we think we are listening
Listen some more,
and when we think we are listening more
Listen deeper
And when we think we know
Shut up and listen!

As soon as we think we know something we close ourselves off to learning anything new.

Cheers
Jeanne


Suffering- One Moment In Time from Nov 11th

 “Nobody will protect you from your suffering. You can't cry it away or eat it away or starve it away or walk it away or punch it away or even therapy it away. It's just there, and you have to survive it. You have to endure it. You have to live through it and love it and move on and be better for it and run as far as you can in the direction of your best and happiest dreams across the bridge that was built by your own desire to heal.”

Cheryl Strayed

A song sent to be by a friend has stuck with me this week
I'm not putting in the link, you can google it to listen, the lyrics and some background about the song are below. The version sent to me was by Dana Winner who is a Belgian singer, famous especially in Flanders, South Africa and the Netherlands. It was originally sung by Whitney Houston for the 1998 Olympic. Both versions are inspiring and beautiful to watch!
Dana Winner - One Moment in Time video
Whitney Houston - One Moment In Time (Official HD Video)

One moment in Time
Each day I live
I want to be a day to give the best of me
I'm only one, but not alone
My finest day is yet unknown
I broke my heart for ev'ry gain
To taste the sweet, I face the pain
I rise and fall, yet through it all this much remains
I want one moment in time
When I'm more than I thought I could be
When all of my dreams
Are a heart beat away
And the answers are all up to me
Give me one moment in time
When I'm racing with destiny
Then in that one moment of time
I will feel, I will feel eternity
I've lived to be the very best
And I want it all, no time for less
And I've laid the plans
Now lay the chance here in my hands
Give me one moment in time
When I'm more than I thought I could be
When all of my dreams
Are a heart beat away
And the answers are all up to me
Give me one moment in time
When I'm racing with destiny
Then in that one moment of time
I will feel, I will feel eternity
You're a winner for a lifetime
If you seize that one moment in time
Make it shine
Give me
One moment in time
When I'm more than I thought I could be
When all of my dreams
Are a heart beat away
And the answers are all up to me
Give me one moment in time
When I'm racing with destiny
Then in that one moment of time
I will be, I will be free
I will be free
I will be
I will be free

About One Moment in Time (Wikepedia)
"One Moment in Time" is a sentimental ballad by American singer Whitney Houston and written by Albert Hammond and John Bettis, produced by Narada Michael Walden for the 1988 Summer Olympics held in Seoul, South Korea. It was released by Arista Records on August 27, 1988, as the first single from the compilation album, 1988 Summer Olympics Album: One Moment in Time, the soundtrack to the games.

The song's melody was inspired by the timeless figure of Elvis Presley, with Hammond imagining it as being sung by Presley at the opening of the Olympics. It appeared on the album 1988 Summer Olympics Album: One Moment in Time, produced in conjunction with NBC Sports' coverage of the Seoul games and which, in addition to Whitney Houston who sang it live at the main ceremony, also featured artists such as: The Four Tops, The Bee Gees, Eric Carmen, Taylor Dayne and the film composer John Williams. The track is an anthem for believing in yourself against all odds as Houston asks for "One moment in time/when I'm racing with destiny/Then, in that one moment of time, I will feel eternity."

Cheers
Jeanne


Choose kind - From Nov 4th

 "It's not our job to play judge and jury, to determine who is worthy of our kindness and who is not. We just need to be kind, unconditionally and without ulterior motive even - or rather, especially - when we'd prefer not to be."

Josh Radnor

My thoughts today;
I'm so full of gratitude I could sing! Monday I hurt my leg and spent a few hours in Emergency at the hospital. After a few hours Monday and a return visit for a few more hours Tuesday (most of these hours spent waiting in lines) I left feeling gratitude for the kindness, compassion, patience and professional care that I received. During the time I spent there I thought a lot about how fortunate I am. In many places in the world this care would be a huge expense if it was even available, and for me to have access to this care within a half hour drive is even more rare.
My gratitude is for so much more than just being on the mend. In those lines I saw small acts of kindness amidst frustration, anger and even fear. It's a levelling experience, being in a line up for emergency treatment and I thank the universe I had the option to be there. 

"We are so vocal about what we hate."
Josh Radnor

"We're like a gardener with a hose and our attention is water - we can water flowers or we can water weeds."
Josh Radnor

I'm fine by the way... just another little booboo in the life of a happy farmer.

Cheers
Jeanne

Laugh instead

 "There is no defense against adverse fortune which is so effectual as an habitual sense of humor."

Thomas Wentworth Higginson

The language is old but the message is timeless! "Woe is me" may be a sympathy getter for a few minutes, but in terms of moving past our woes, a sense of humour and not taking ourselves too seriously is much more practical. I have many examples of this from experience, but couldn't choose between them ... It is hard to look deeply at past struggles and not see them with more context, recognizing that the situation could have been better resolved with less emotion and that the determination to be right creates some mighty big conflicts that obstruct any meaningful resolution (although some would be excellent comedy material). 

Interesting to me is that this quote came from a guy who had a very intense life and career. Unitarian minister, militant abolitionist, soldier. Reading about him on Wikipedia I get no sense he had a shred of humour, but I love to think he did and that was what kept him sane and solid while standing up against the atrocities and inequities of slavery and war. 

On a totally different topic, check this out about trees, I'm on day 1 and it is a good refresher, and I'm anticipating learning something new: 


Here are a couple excerpts from Wikipedia:
 
Thomas Wentworth Higginson (December 22, 1823 – May 9, 1911) was an American Unitarian minister, author, abolitionist, and soldier. He was active in the American Abolitionism movement during the 1840s and 1850s, identifying himself with disunion and militant abolitionism. He was a member of the Secret Six who supported John Brown. During the Civil War, he served as colonel of the 1st South Carolina Volunteers, the first federally authorized black regiment, from 1862 to 1864.[1] Following the war, Higginson devoted much of the rest of his life to fighting for the rights of freed people, women and other disfranchised peoples.

Civil War years[edit]
During the early part of the Civil War, Higginson was a captain in the 51st Massachusetts Infantry from November 1862 to October 1864, when he was retired because of a wound received in the preceding August. He was colonel of the First South Carolina Volunteers, the first authorized regiment recruited from freedmen for Union military service.[2] Secretary of War Edwin M. Stanton required that black regiments be commanded by white officers. "We, their officers, did not go there to teach lessons, but to receive them," Higginson wrote. "There were more than a hundred men in the ranks who had voluntarily met more dangers in their escape from slavery than any of my young captains had incurred in all their lives."[26]

CheersJeanne

Thursday, October 07, 2021

Ignore Others (from Sept 9th)

 "School, politics, sports, and games train us to compete against others. True rewards — wealth, knowledge, love, fitness, and equanimity — come from ignoring others and improving ourselves.”

Naval Ravikant

My thoughts: I know that there are lots of people who may not agree with the above quote, but the hate and anger that seem to be spreading globally are fueled by people blaming something outside themselves for any real or perceived injustice. Blame is a reaction to fear and it is not constructive. These are not the activities of someone who has a strong sense of self worth. If we think there are conspiracies that are out to destroy what we value then the answer is not to give it traction by making it a competition to who yells loudest, does the most damage or starts the biggest war. Who are the war heroes? They are the everyday people who know their values and live them. They are the Ghandis, Mandela's and MLK's who inspire people through their strength of belief, mind and purpose. They are not the people spewing vitriol and throwing stones. They are not the witch hunters. They are not the people pouring energy into their fears. They are the people who are living the best they can, trying to be the best they can in everyday life. They are the ones who open up hope and light for a better humanity. Imagine what this world would be like if all of us were focusing on improving ourselves and living our own values rather than needing to prove ourselves right and others wrong.

But how can we tell if we are improving ourselves if comparing ourselves to others doesn't give us the answer?? If we live in a competitive mindset we will always  be competing, and it is hard to be generous (even with ourselves) if we always need to do better than someone else. Hmmm, I have lots of thoughts lol but instead of another essay there are more quotes below

I had not heard of Naval Ravikant until I happened upon a reference to him last night, following some links after watching  Tim Ferriss: Smash fear, learn anything | TED Talk. Naval shares his wisdom for free, you can find access to at Almanack of Naval Ravikant (navalmanack.com)


More quotes by Naval Ravikant:
"Don't do things that you know are morally wrong. Not because someone is watching but because you are. Self esteem is just the reputation that you have with yourself."
"Cynicism is easy. Mimicry is easy. Optimistic contrarians are the rarest breed."
"Watch every thought. Always ask why am I having this thought?"
"Morality and ethics automatically emerge when we realize the long term consequences of our actions.”

More quotes by NR that I couldn't not share:
"If you see a get rich quick scheme, that’s someone else trying to get rich off of you."
"People who live far below their means enjoy a freedom that people busy upgrading their lifestyles can't appreciate."

Cheers
Jeanne

Flat Earth (From Sept 16th)

 "In fact, it's Douggie's growing conviction that the greatest flaw of the species is its overwhelming tendency to mistake agreement for truth. Single biggest influence on what a body will or won’t believe is what nearby bodies broadcast over the public band. Get three people in the room and they’ll decide that the law of gravity is evil and should be rescinded because one of their uncles got shit-faced and fell off the roof.”

Richard Powers, The Overstory

My thoughts:
There are many definitions of science, but not one of them includes judgement on what is evil. The biggest instigator of learning is curiousity and the biggest obstacle is preconceived ideas and assumptions. Science is an exercise of intellect and methodology that is applied to advancing our understanding, which means it is a process. If we get stuck believing that what has been proven at a certain period of time is true we are limiting progress. The stronger we defend a "story" the more curious it should make us, and we should be curious in ways we aren't even aware of yet.
Yesterday afternoon I listened to four plus hours of the Halton Region Statutory Public Meeting on the latest Nelson Aggregate application to expand their quarry in Burlington. There were many impassioned pleas against the quarry expansion and a few that were for it. I don't envy the municipal and regional councilors having to try to make an unbiased decision on this application. 
One of my takeaways is that the presentations that were based on science and methodical research were startling in their impact on the rational of the applicant. For example: a justification for the application is based on an increased demand for aggregates for the expected growth in this area that will require building more roads, housing and infrastructure and that it is better for everyone and the environment if those aggregates come from a local source. I totally get this argument... and I assumed this meant the capacity of our existing quarries in the area would not be enough to support the growth... turns out some curious group did some investigating, into the records of the quarries themselves, and reported that none of the licensed aggregate extractors in the area is even close to reaching the limit of their licensed annual extractions while meeting current demand. 
No matter what side of the fence we are on for any issue we should not be afraid to examine our assumptions and be willing to stay curious and listen. Douggie's quote seems ridiculous... but ridiculous is in the eye of the beholder... or in the believer

Science definitions:
  • the intellectual and practical activity encompassing the systematic study of the structure and behaviour of the physical and natural world through observation and experiment.
  • Science is the pursuit and application of knowledge and understanding of the natural and social world following a systematic methodology based on evidence.
  • Scientific methodology includes the following:
  1. Objective observation: Measurement and data (possibly although not necessarily using mathematics as a tool)
  2. Evidence
  3. Experiment and/or observation as benchmarks for testing hypotheses
  4. Induction: reasoning to establish general rules or conclusions drawn from facts or examples
  5. Repetition
  6. Critical analysis
  7. Verification and testing: critical exposure to scrutiny, peer review and assessment

Members of the Flat Earth Society claim to believe the Earth is flat. Walking around on the planet's surface, it looks and feels flat, so they deem all evidence to the contrary, such as satellite photos of Earth as a sphere, to be fabrications of a "round Earth conspiracy" orchestrated by NASA and other government agencies.
Conspiracy theory psychology 
As inconceivable as their belief system seems, it doesn't really surprise experts. Karen Douglas, a psychologist at the University of Kent in the United Kingdom who studies the psychology of conspiracy theories, says flat-earthers' beliefs cohere with those of other conspiracy theorists she has studied.
"It seems to me that these people do generally believe that the Earth is flat. I'm not seeing anything that sounds as if they're just putting that idea out there for any other reason," Douglas told Live Science.
She said all conspiracy theories share a basic thrust: They present an alternative theory about an important issue or event, and construct an (often) vague explanation for why someone is covering up that "true" version of events. "One of the major points of appeal is that they explain a big event but often without going into details," she said. "A lot of the power lies in the fact that they are vague."
The self-assured way in which conspiracy theorists stick to their story imbues that story with special appeal. After all, flat-earthers are more adamant that the Earth is flat than most people are that the Earth is round (probably because the rest of us feel we have nothing to prove). "If you're faced with a minority viewpoint that is put forth in an intelligent, seemingly well-informed way, and when the proponents don't deviate from these strong opinions they have, they can be very influential. We call that minority influence," Douglas said.
In a study published online March 5, 2014, in the American Journal of Political Science, Eric Oliver and Tom Wood, political scientists at the University of Chicago, found that about half of Americans endorse at least one conspiracy theory, from the notion that 9/11 was an inside job to the JFK conspiracy. "Many people are willing to believe many ideas that are directly in contradiction to a dominant cultural narrative," Oliver told Live Science. He says conspiratorial belief stems from a human tendency to perceive unseen forces at work, known as magical thinking.

“The only way to deal with an unfree world is to become so absolutely free that your very existence is an act of rebellion.”
Albert Camus

Action: To develop my curiousity muscle. I'm sure this could provide an irresistible opportunity for some friends to point out my assumptions, so if someone tells me that I'm making an assumption for the purpose of proving something they are making assumptions about, I am going to try to live the act of rebellion and remain free. This is not a competition, it is an exercise.
And I am very grateful for my dishwasher again!

DON'T FORGET TO VOTE!!

Cheers
Jeanne

10,000 times (from Sept 23rd)

 “Time provides all of us with the opportunity to change, alter our belief system, and create new perspectives that challenge a person’s character and teach him or her how to become a happier and wiser person.”

Kilroy J. Oldster, Dead Toad Scrolls

Show me a man who claims he is objective and I'll show you a man with illusions.
Henry R. Luce

An excerpt from the Financial Express review of the book Poor economics: A radical rethinking of the way to fight global poverty
“We must arm ourselves with patience and wisdom and listen to the poor and what they want. This is the best way to avoid the trap of ignorance, ideology, and inertia on our side”, wrote Abhijit V Banerjee describing the main message of the book, which is the ‘Three Is' problem (ignorance, ideology, and inertia) of poverty trap. It often plagues the efforts which are supposed to alleviate poverty."

The authors of the aforementioned book, winners of the Nobel Memorial Prize in Economic Sciences (2019), have worked with the poor to cull information directly from them in dozens of countries across five continents for more than 15 years.

I fear not the man who has practiced 10,000 kicks once, but I fear the man who has practiced one kick 10,000 times.
Bruce Lee

My thoughts;
I have been thinking of all the post mortems and blah blah about the Canadian Federal election on Monday. When I saw the reference on a quote to Dead Toad Scrolls I thought this sounded like an apt title
 for all this rehashing. Then I thought about the poor, maligned toad and how unfair it is to use anything from nature as a metaphor for our politics. In nature you eat or you are eaten. If you eat today you will be eaten tomorrow or the next day, possibly by a big predator, but for certain everything will  eventually be consumed by bacteria. There is no escaping, every living thing will eventually be some form of poop, and then fertilizer for the next creature that grows from it. 

Wait a minute here, maybe the rehashing is the bacterial process, but if so it seems like we have a long way to go before the fertilizer is used for anything productive. How many times do we hear the same things over and over?? The economy blah blah, the greedy rich blah blah, the unambitious poor who are so lazy they don't take advantage when aid is offered to them...

The 'three Is' problem seems prevalent in many of our ways of thinking today... 
Ideologies; what we believe to be true, keeps us thinking the same way. Imagine if things weren't judged on whether they fit in with an ideology in a government party, in religion, in culture, in business...
Ignorance; that we don't question to find out the meaning or source behind what we are told. It is so much easier to assume than to ask questions. Easier to be right than to say "I don't know". Imagine if we asked questions instead of thinking we know the solutions, instead of assuming everyone wants the same thing or has the same opportunities and needs.
Inertia; that lets us stay in our comfort zones and stay thinking the problems are too big and as an individual we don't make a difference so why not just accept our place and be content with jumping over puddles and never dive into the ocean. 

I think the first quote above describes the possibility. The second and third quotes describe the obstacles. The fourth quote actually gives us the work to do to make the first possible. We do not change in a day or in a thought. Hard work and many practice kicks are needed. 

My hero today is a friend who recently completed the physical challenge of bicycling 300 km, paddling across a lake and climbing to summit a demanding peak all in under 12 hours said that this was relatively easy because of all of the sweat that he put in during the training. He trained harder and in worse conditions than the actual challenge. 
 
How do we know something is impossible?? And if we are all going to be eaten by bacteria and turned into poop, why don't we aim to make that land in more fertile ground... oh dear, I lost that thought somewhere. 

PS      I had to google whether cremated ashes got decomposed by bacteria. I learned a new word; Cremains, and I learned a bunch of stuff like people store cremains in airtight urns and even in jewelry to make them last longer. I wonder if this is an analogy for the rehashing and why change in thinking is so slow...the poop process is slowed down and stays in the system way too long.
PPS   Spellcheck accepted cremains as a legit word (am I the only one to not have heard this??)

Cheers
Jeanne

Soul Shine

 I merely took the energy it takes to pout and wrote some blues.

Duke Ellington


Its been raining here since I don't know when. Some gloomy days are made for blues

Cheers Jeanne


Let your soul shine

Better than sunshine
I know it's better than moonshine
Damn sure better than rain
People now don't you mind
We all get this way sometimes
You got to let your soul shine
Shine till the break of day

Written by Warren Haynes (guitarist for Allman Brothers Band and Gov't Mule)


Listen to this version of Soul Shine by Beth Hart to get your morning going:-)

https://open.spotify.com/track/3yWl1F8mOIUwE7COOKN6O4?si=7de99fd806b841f3






3 Pines at Mary and Paul's
or 
Waiting, Watching and Wondering

First ever posting of my art! 
haha, my select readership of two, you will get subjected to my random creations now that I have discovered I like to draw and paint as well as write.
Thanks for reading:-)


Thursday, September 30, 2021

Truth and Reconciliation Day 2021

 "In the old days we used to respect everything… This isn’t done today, that’s why we are lost."

"kĂ­yatĂ©-mana kahkiyaw kikway ni-kĂ­-kistĂ©yihtamak… Ă©kwa Ăłma anohc namowiya Ă©kohsi itĂłcikatwĂ©w, Ă©koci Ăłma Ă©yakohk Ă©sa ká-wanisiniyak."
ISIAH BEAR, MUSKODAY FIRST NATION

My thoughts:

Respect Everything! 

It is really just that simple and yet, like all simple things it requires a radical amount of change and work. I wonder if we listened to a recording of ourselves speaking we could recognize all of the endemic myths we perpetuate by our careless, disrespectful, stereotyping language. 

I wonder if we can turn 'their' problem that 'they' can't learn to deal with our reality, into "everyone's" opportunity to learn to hear what the reality of other people is and to imagine if we grew up in those circumstances what our reality might be. If we can get inside that experience I think we could learn to grow, feel, speak and act with empathy. 

This is the only way that we can come close to realizing the truth of the pain and irrevocable damage to generations of families, an entire culture, belief system and way of life that has been caused by the systemic attempts by colonial Canada right up to the present time to devalue and wipe out an entire nation. 

Whether we are directly accountable or not is irrelevant. We are all responsible to acknowledge what happened and to work on reconciliation. 

A simple google search brings up these definitions:

Reconciliation:

  • the restoration of friendly relations.
  • In Canada, the process of reconciliation is tied to the federal government's relationship with Indigenous peoples. The term has come to describe attempts made by individuals and institutions to raise awareness about colonization and its ongoing effects on Indigenous peoples.
  • Reconciliation in Practice reminds us that reconciliation is an ongoing process, not an event, and that decolonizing our relationships and building new ones based on understanding and respect is empowering for all of us.
  • How to practice reconciliation: research First Nations, Inuit and MĂ©tis peoples in your area to understand their history and contributions to society. watch movies by Indigenous filmmakers or read Indigenous literature. learn more about Indigenous arts and artists. attend local Indigenous cultural events open to the public.

Respect is an action that needs a really good workout these days!!



“The best arguments in the world won’t change a person’s mind. The only thing that can do that is a good story.”
Richard Powers, The Overstory

I am grateful to all of the people who speak their story, who share their humiliations and pain to try to effect change, begin the healing process and educate the rest of us so hopefully we can recognize and make certain that Every child's life matters. We all live together, are all part of the same family under the same sun, are all responsible for our collective actions and the results of these. 

Today is Canada National Truth and Reconciliation Day:
"Over the last several years, I am learning that my beloved Canada is not the Canada I once thought it was. I am learning that history must be re-written so we can see the picture in its fullness, not the one painted through the colonizers’ rose-rimmed glasses.
I am learning that I have an active role in this, too. While I hold our government and the Catholic church responsible for much of this carnage, I must hold myself accountable, too.
As a settler, it is my responsibility to do the work to learn more and advocate for Indigenous People — I may not have caused it, but I have benefited from their suffering. I must acknowledge the sins on which this country has accumulated its wealth and prosperity. I must acknowledge the privilege I am granted in my children’s well-being and safety has come at an immeasurably grave cost to other children. It is not enough to say every child matters. We must act like every child matters." 
By Meera Estrada  Special to Global News
Posted June 6, 2021 11:00 am
 Updated June 4, 2021 7:40 pm



Today's hero (people who make a difference): Thank you Phyllis for sharing your story and starting the Orange Shirt Society. 

Phyllis (Jack) Webstad's story in her own words...

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I went to the Mission for one school year in 1973/1974. I had just turned 6 years old. I lived with my grandmother on the Dog Creek reserve. We never had very much money, but somehow my granny managed to buy me a new outfit to go to the Mission school. I remember going to Robinson’s store and picking out a shiny orange shirt. It had string laced up in front, and was so bright and exciting – just like I felt to be going to school!

When I got to the Mission, they stripped me, and took away my clothes, including the orange shirt! I never wore it again. I didn’t understand why they wouldn’t give it back to me, it was mine! The color orange has always reminded me of that and how my feelings didn’t matter, how no one cared and how I felt like I was worth nothing. All of us little children were crying and no one cared.

I was 13.8 years old and in grade 8 when my son Jeremy was born. Because my grandmother and mother both attended residential school for 10 years each, I never knew what a parent was supposed to be like. With the help of my aunt, Agness Jack, I was able to raise my son and have him know me as his mother.

I went to a treatment centre for healing when I was 27 and have been on this healing journey since then. I finally get it, that the feeling of worthlessness and insignificance, ingrained in me from my first day at the mission, affected the way I lived my life for many years. Even now, when I know nothing could be further than the truth, I still sometimes feel that I don’t matter. Even with all the work I’ve done!

I am honored to be able to tell my story so that others may benefit and understand, and maybe other survivors will feel comfortable enough to share their stories.


Today...

Phyllis Webstad is Northern Secwpemc (Shuswap) from the Stswecem’c Xgat’tem First Nation (Canoe Creek Indian Band). She comes from mixed Secwepemc and Irish/French heritage, was born in Dog Creek, and lives in Williams Lake, BC. Today, Phyllis is married, has one son, a step-son and five grandchildren.  She is the Executive Director of the Orange Shirt Society, and tours the country telling her story and raising awareness about the impacts of the residential school system.  She has now published two books, the "Orange Shirt Story" and "Phyllis's  Orange Shirt" for younger children.

She earned diplomas in Business Administration from the Nicola Valley Institute of Technology; and in Accounting from Thompson Rivers University. Phyllis received the 2017 TRU Distinguished Alumni Award for her unprecedented impact on local, provincial, national and international communities through the sharing of her orange shirt story.


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Cheers
Jeanne

Thursday, September 02, 2021

What's in the Frame

“The only people who see the whole picture,' he murmured, 'are the ones who step out of the frame.” Salman Rushdie, The Ground Beneath Her Feet Imagine doing that... taking yourself, your opinion, your belief, your perspective completely out your thoughts and opinions of something... How would we judge? How would we recognize what we were seeing? how would we know what to think? and where would we be relative to the picture?? Hmmm, discombobulating! Discombobulating week, not much time for extras so this is it for today Cheers Jeanne

Moral Compass