Thursday, September 05, 2019

Expanding Point of View, Henry Kimsey-House

“It is only through dialogue, deep listening, and passionate disagreement that we find our way to something larger than a singular and isolated point of view.” 
Henry Kimsey-House
Co-Active Leadership: Five Ways to Lead  

Henry is a remarkable hero. I had the good fortune to attend a leadership program that he co-developed and led in a retreat north of San Francisco.  This experience began to open my eyes to a larger world where assumptions are constraints and curiousity is a key. I'm learning to recognize that my deepest fears are as much illusions as my convictions and it is exhilarating to peek out and see what is there beyond this limited and judgmental perspective. I still passionately dislike disagreements and yet I appreciate them as I recognize they can lead to larger understanding and deeper questions. (Though I still want to be right lol it is when I let go of that long enough to remember learning is more useful than being right that I can really listen) The listening tools from that program are some of the greatest gifts Henry (and Laura) shared with us.

Einstein explains it in his inimitable style "Reality is merely an illusion, albeit a persistent one" and "To raise new questions, new possibilities, to regard old problems from a new angle, requires creative imagination and marks real advance in science."

Today is not Thursday, I missed Thursday this week. I'm not sure where it went...
Cheers
Jeanne

Henry Kimsey House
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One of the earliest recognized luminaries in the coaching profession, Kimsey-House founded CTI in 1992 with Laura Whitworth and Henry Kimsey-House. They created the Co-Active philosophy of relationship that informs CTI’s world-renowned coaching and leadership programs. She also is the co-author of Co-Active Coaching, the best-selling industry bible, which is in its third edition. A successful entrepreneur, Kimsey-House founded and directed the Learning Annex San Francisco adult education program in 1986 and grew it into one of the most admired programs under the national Learning Annex brand. She received her MFA in Communications and Theater from Temple University in Philadelphia. Committed to pioneering Co-Activity in challenged environments and troubled populations, Kimsey-House continues to lead CTI workshops and is a dynamic keynote speaker around the world. On a mission of global, transformative change, she lives with her husband, Henry Kimsey-House, by the Pacific Ocean.
One of the first professional coaches in the 1980s, Kimsey-House is the Co-founder and lead designer of the thought-provoking, experiential learning programs of CTI and the co-author of Co-Active Coaching, the best-selling industry bible, which is in its third edition. An actor since age nine, Kimsey-House honed his insights into human emotion and the narrative process through classical theatrical training and years of stage, television and film experience. With deep conviction that education should be driven by immersive, contextually based learning and not dry information dumps, Kimsey-House is committed to creating richly engaging and transformative learning environments where retention approaches 80% rather than the traditional 20%. He continues to develop new, innovative curriculum, collaborate with other dynamic thought leaders and is completing a book about transformative leadership. He lives with his wife, Karen Kimsey-House, on the coast of northern California.

Making a difference, Jeff Skoll

My goal is to make the biggest difference possible in the world. I have only so many resources and so much time.
We remain committed to inspiring and compelling social change to the world's most pressing problems through the power of great stories and engaging our audiences to take meaningful action. 
Jeffrey Skoll 

Jeff Skoll, hero! One guy who has all kinds of money and opportunity decides he wants to make a difference and then does it. 
Cheers
Jeanne

An Open Letter To Jeff Skoll

Speaker, columnist and author, 'RIPE: Rich, Rewarding Work After 50'
04/07/2009 05:12am EDT | Updated December 7, 2017
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Dear Jeff Skoll,
I always had you pegged as an ideas guy. I mean, co-founder of eBay, how cool is that?
But lately I've been starting to see you as a man of the people. The idea at the core of eBay was empowering, wasn't it? The revolutionary notion that everyone can become an entrepreneur.
And then, when your big idea made you very rich, you thought hard about what to do with those resources. And you got a great piece of advice, "Bet on good people doing good things."
Which is precisely what you've done. And, maybe because you deliberately have such a low personal profile, Jeff (I mean, you're not in boldface alongside Paris Hilton, are you?), I'm just starting to put it all together.
First, I watched the talk you gave at the TED conference. That helped.
I knew that you'd started the Skoll Foundation to help develop the emerging field of social entrepreneurship. (I've been writing about social entrepreneurs in recent weeks, Jeff, but need to do a quick definition for those who are new to this world. A social entrepreneur is someone who applies the approaches and spirit of the entrepreneur - things like innovation, leadership, tenacity, risk-taking, and vision - to help drive social change. Rather than focusing exclusively on making money, these entrepreneurs are driven to achieve social goals - like helping people start small businesses and secure access to health care, education, and clean water.) The Skoll Foundation has been investing in, connecting, and celebrating social entrepreneurs around the world for more than a decade.
And social entrepreneurs aren't billionaires (no offence intended), which is what people often think - "You have to be rich to do this work." In fact, one of the best-known examples was started with just $27. There's more in the Social Entrepreneurship 101 video your team produced.
Next, you created a way for the growing community of social entrepreneurs to connect. Social Edge is a site where social entrepreneurs can exchange ideas and information, and support one another. I particularly like the discussions hosted by these innovators and professionals in various disciplines, like marketing and finance.
All good, but not yet enough for you. Eager to reach even more people, you came up with the wild idea of starting a production company to make films with big messages, Participant Media. http://www.participantmedia.com. The best-known example? The one everyone calls Al Gore's movie, "An Inconvenient Truth."
Here, I need to pause for breath, Jeff. Phew!
But before I sign off, there's another piece I need to mention. Each year, you host the Skoll World Forum - kind of like Davos, but for social entrepreneurs. This year, 800 people from 60 countries will convene at Oxford University's Said Business School to talk about how to advance social entrepreneurship, to network, and share best practices. It happens on March 25 - 27, and everyone can "listen in" by following live blogs on both the Skoll World Forum and Social Edge sites. Sessions will be recorded and aired after the event, right?
Jeff, I see social entrepreneurs as being of a larger movement I've dubbed the New Radicals -- that is, men and women who've discovered how to put skills acquired in their careers to work on the world's greatest challenges. New Radicals are people like you and me, Jeff, who truly believe that each of us can make a difference in the world. (For more, please see archived articles.)
I'm writing to say, "Go, Jeff!" - and that we look forward to your next big idea. I also want to ask the question that's on everyone's minds - What impact will the economic downturn have on all of this hopeful, world-changing work?
Yours sincerely,
Julia Moulden, New Radical

Humility and Grace, Quincy Jones

I tell my kids and I tell proteges, always have humility when you create and grace when you succeed, because it's not about you. You are a terminal for a higher power. As soon as you accept that, you can do it forever. 
Quincy Jones

This week's hero!!
A while ago we watched Quincy: the documentary about Quincy Jones on Netflix. His accomplishments and humanitarianism are legendary. To do all he has done, to win countless awards and have his music and films be household names and then to still practice humility and grace is a Heroic feat!! Cheers
Jeanne


Considered to be one of the greatest minds in music and television history, Quincy Delight Jones, Jr. was born on March 14, 1933 in Chicago, Illinois. He is the son of Sarah Frances (Wells), a bank executive, and Quincy Delight Jones, Sr., a carpenter.

Jones found his love for music while he was enrolled in grade school at Seattle's Garfield High School, this is also where he had met Ray Charles whom he later worked and became friends with. In 1951, Quincy Jones had won a scholarship to the Berklee College Of Music in Boston, Massachusetts. Jones however dropped out when he got the opportunity to tour with Lionel Hampton's band as a trumpeter and conductor. Jones also worked for the European production of Harold Arlen's blues opera, Free and Easy in 1959. After Jones had worked on several projects overseas he returned to New York where he composed and arranged, and recorded for artists such as Duke Ellington, Ray Charles, Sarah Vaughan, Count Basie, Dinah Washington, LeVern Baker, and Big Maybell. Jones was working with these artists while holding an executive position at Mercury Records, being one of the very few African Americans at the time to have such a position.

In 1963, Quincy Jones won his first Grammy award for his Count Basie arrangement of "I Can't Stop Loving You". In 1964, by the request of director Sidney Lumet, Jones composed the music for his movie, The Pawnbroker. This would be the first of many Jones composed for film scores. By the mid-1960's Quincy Jones became the conductor and arranger for Frank Sinatra's orchestra. Jones also conducted and arranged one of Sinatra's most memorable songs, Fly Me To The Moon. Jones appeared on a lot of film credits for his music such as The Slender Thread, Walk, Don't Run, In Cold Blood, In The Heat Of The Night, A Dandy In Aspic, Mackenna's Gold, and The Italian Job. In 1972 Quincy Jones was the theme song composer for the hit-sitcom, Sanford And Son.

Quincy Jones in 1978 worked on music for the Wiz, this is where he met icon, Michael Jackson. Jackson at the time was looking for a producer, Jones recommended some producers but in the end asked Jackson if he could do it, Jackson said yes. In 1982 as a result of this partnership, Jones had formed a tapestry with Jackson which was unbreakable it was called, Thriller. The Thriller album sold more than 100 million records world-wide. Jones continued working with Jackson with his Bad album in 1987. However after Jones recommended Jackson seek other producers to update his music. Jones referred Jackson to producer, Teddy Riley. This ended a partnership between two-greats, Jackson and Jones would never collaborate again.

In 1981 Jones had an album called, The Dude. In 1985 Jones scored the film adaptation of The Color Purple. Jones also was a philanthropist, in 1985 gathering multiple stars to participate in the song We Are The World to help raise money to help the victims of the Ethopian disaster.

In 1990 Jones composed a theme song for the new sitcom which was centered around Will Smith, The Fresh Prince Of Bel Air. Jones was also the executive producer of the show.

Quincy Jones will forever be remembered as someone who helped sculpt music in every form, he refined music and through the music he helped sculpt brought messages of peace, justice, love, funk, and hope.
- IMDb Mini Biography By: Peter Sean

Spouse (3)

Peggy Lipton(14 September 1974 - 10 October 1989) ( divorced) ( 2 children)
Ulla Andersson(17 October 1968 - 13 September 1974) ( divorced) ( 2 children)
Jeri Caldwell(1957 - 1966) ( divorced) ( 1 child)

Trivia (30)

Suffered a brain aneurysm in the 1970s. As a result, he can no longer play the trumpet; doing so could dislodge the chip in his brain.
Recipient of twenty-six Grammys, which is currently more than any living recording artist. Sir Georg Solti holds the all-time record with thirty-one Grammys.
Godfather of singer Patti AustinNicole Richie, and Quincy Brown.
(1991-1997) Lived with Nastassja Kinski. One daughter, Kenya Kinski-Jones (Kenya Julia Miambi Sarah Jones) (b. February 9, 1993).
Chosen by People (USA) magazine as one of the 50 most beautiful people in the world. [1996]
He appeared in, conducted, produced, and directed the music video for the song "We Are The World".
Born at 8:40pm CST.
At 17, he began his career playing trumpet and arranging for Lionel Hampton, and later Count BasieFrank SinatraDinah WashingtonSarah VaughanDizzy Gillespie, and Peggy Lee.
His production company, partnered with former news executive David Salzman, also produces Jenny Jones (1991) and MADtv (1995).
Awarded the Polar Music Prize, the Royal Swedish Academy of Music Award, in 1994.
Father, with Peggy Lipton, of actresses Kidada Jones (born 1974) and Rashida Jones (born 1976).
He has never learned how to drive an automobile.
He received the John F. Kennedy Center Honors in 2001.
Inducted into the Big Band and Jazz Hall of Fame in 1988.
After his brain aneurysm, a metal plate was placed in his head, thus setting off a metal detector at an airport.
With Jeri Caldwell, is the father of jazz vocalist Jolie Jones Levine.
Born on the same date as Sir Michael Caine.
He is considered Berklee College of Music's most famous alumnus. His original application, when the school was known as Schillinger House, is housed in a display case at the school.
Jones' maternal grandmother, Mary Belle Lanier, was the illegitimate daughter of James Balance Lanier, the second cousin four times removed of President George Washington. He is also related to Lee Marvin and Senator John McCain.
Father, with Carol Reynolds, of daughter Rachel Jones.
He was awarded a Star on the Hollywood Walk of Fame for Recording at 1500 Vine Street in Hollywood, California.
He was awarded the 2010 National Medal of Arts for his contributions to American music as a musician, composer, record producer, and arranger. He was an inventor of musical hybrids, he has mixed pop, soul, hip-hop, jazz, classical, African, and Brazilian music into many dazzling fusions, traversing virtually every medium, including records, live performances, movies, and television.
In 1963, when Lesley Gore's "It's My Party" topped the US charts, was Quincy's very first hit as a producer for Mercury Records.
He will be awarded an Honorary Doctorate from the University of Pennsylvania in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, for his services to music. [May 2005]
Former brother-in-law of Robert Lipton.
Good friends with Ray Charles.
Larenz Tate portrayed Jones in Ray (2004).
He was once neighbors with Pablo Picasso. They had a mutual friend and met at a restaurant. Picasso paid with fish bones, which were immediately hung on the wall.

Personal Quotes (3)

Frank Sinatra took me to a whole new planet. I worked with him until he passed away in '98. He left me his ring. I never take it off. Now, when I go to Sicily, I don't need a passport. I just flash my ring.
[on Jack Nicholson] Jack had a great sense of humor. He still does. He's crazy and a beautiful guy. I always think it's nice when somebody who's paid his dues, like Jack, makes it. But he hasn't really changed much.
When I was studying with Nadia Boulanger, the legendary composer and teacher, in Paris, she used to say "Your music can never be more than you are as a human being". And B.B. King was a great human being.

Embrace the Mess! Nora Ephron

“My mother didn’t serve Yorkshire pudding, although there is a recipe for it on page 61 of ‘The Gourmet Cookbook.’ My mother served potato pancakes instead. I serve Yorkshire pudding and potato pancakes. Why not? You live once.” 
Nora Ephron
 
Our book for bookclub last week was "I Feel Bad About my Neck" by Nora Ephron. This is a quote from it. Laura, our host, served us Champagne and a delicious dinner with two Gourmet mains:-) We discussed the book and the very interesting author (see below) which naturally led to discussing our own lives and defining events and circumstances. In a lifetime of living we go through so many transformations, and what we thought knew about life when we were 20, 30 or  even 40 seems a mere iota compared to what we don't know at 50 and 60 and I am sure this will continue to 70, 80 and beyond. I love this quote about  serving Yorkshire pudding and potato pancakes, because it makes me wonder about limits we assume. What I mean is described well by Nora Ephron in her 1996 commencement speech at Wellesly College 
"This is the season when a clutch of successful women -- who have it all -- give speeches to women like you and say, to be perfectly honest, you can't have it all. Maybe young women don't wonder whether they can have it all any longer, but in case of you are wondering, of course you can have it all. What are you going to do? Everything, is my guess. It will be a little messy, but embrace the mess. It will be complicated, but rejoice in the complications. It will not be anything like what you think it will be like, but surprises are good for you. And don't be frightened: you can always change your mind. I know: I've had four careers and three husbands." 
Best advice ever "Embrace the mess and rejoice in the complications", it is liberating!!
Cheers
Jeanne

About Nora Ephron 
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https://www.biography.com/writer/nora-ephron 

Nora Ephron was born on May 19, 1941 in New York City. Her essays initially grabbed attention in the early 1970s, and by the 1980s, she began to transition into screenwriting. Ephron wrote the screenplay for the romantic comedy classic When Harry Met Sally. Later, she wrote and directed Sleepless in Seattle, You’ve Got Mail and Julie & Julia (2009).

The daughter of writers, she grew up in Los Angeles, feeling much like an outsider. She went east to go to school at Wellesley College in Massachusetts. Gifted with a sharp wit, Ephron first made her mark as an essayist. In 1970, her articles collected and published in 1970's Wallflower at the Orgy and 1975's Crazy Salad. Her first novel, Heartburn (1983), drew inspiration from the end of her second marriage and was later made into a film starring Meryl Streep and Jack Nicholson.

Around this time, Ephron made the leap into films, writing the screenplay for the drama Silkwood (1983). It earned her an Academy Award nomination for Best Screenplay. While that film received much praise, she really hit box office gold with her screenplay for When Harry Met Sally, starring Billy Crystal and Meg Ryan in the title roles. Audiences and critics alike responded enthusiastically to the well-crafted exploration into whether a man and a woman can be just friends and the relationship that develops between the lead characters. She received her second Academy Award nomination for Best Screenplay for this engaging, humorous film.

In 1992, Ephron directed her first film, This Is My Life. The film was generally well-received, with Time magazine calling it a "charming and quietly confident movie" that is both "adorable and unsentimental." This family drama centered on a single mother who is pursuing a career in stand-up comedy. Ephron co-wrote the screenplay with her sister, Delia Ephron.

The next year, Ephron directed and wrote the wildly successful Sleepless in Seattle, which featured Meg Ryan and Tom Hanks as two people who live on opposite coasts and fall in love after Ryan hears Hanks on the radio and tracks him down. The film earned more than $120 million at the box office, once again showing Hollywood that Ephron was a formidable filmmaker. She also scored her third Academy Award nomination for Best Screenplay.

Ryan and Hanks reunited for another Ephron film, 1998's You've Got Mail, which played the romantic possibilities created on the anonymity of the Internet. The two played business rivals who don't know that they had become friends online. The two opposing relationships unfold during the course of the film. Many critics remarked on the dynamic chemistry between the lead actors. In addition to serving as the director on the film, Ephron co-wrote the screenplay with her sister, Delia.

Ephron's 2005 film effort, Bewitched, failed to strike a chord with movie audiences. In 2006, she returned to her essayist roots with I Feel Bad about My Neck: And Other Thoughts on Being a Woman, offering her readers a comic look at aging and other issues.

In 2009, Ephron received wide acclaim for directing and writing Julie & Julia, a comedy about the lives of famed chef Julia Child and a young, aspiring cook. The film starred actresses Amy Adams and Meryl Streep (Julia Child), and earned nearly $130 million at the box office.

Ephron died from pneumonia, caused by acute myeloid leukemia, on June 26, 2012, at the age of 71. She was survived by her husband of nearly 25 years, screenwriter Nicholas Pileggi; and her two sons, Jacob and Max Bernstein, from her previous marriage to journalist Carl Bernstein, her second husband (Ephron's first marriage was to Dan Greenburg).

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Tuesday, July 09, 2019

Freedom

"At times, we take freedom for granted. We really don't know how to cherish the freedom we have until it's taken from us." 
Alek Wek

 ref·u·gee
/ˌrefyo͝oˈjē/
noun
  1. a person who has been forced to leave their country in order to escape war, persecution, or natural disaster.


My commentary: I had a long diatribe written but I think this quote speaks for itself.

Freedom is not free, and it is not ever something to be taken for granted. We have not earned it by our luck of birth any more than others have earned their hardship by virtue of where they were born. Our resources, talents, beauty, and any other gifts we have can be used with the purpose of helping others and our world which is the most meaningful way we can live a life. (Ooops, I couldn't resist writing something)



About Alek



Supermodel Alek Wek was appointed UNHCR Goodwill Ambassador in 2013, after years of committed support. As a former refugee from what is now South Sudan, Alek knows what it is like to be forced to flee her home. She now travels across the globe using her voice, her platform and her story to advocate on behalf of refugees and to support the life-saving work of UNHCR.

Alek was only nine when civil war broke out in Sudan. “Life as we knew it came to a devastating end," she remembers. "Our parents tried to shield us from the conflict but the sounds of gunfire and the vibrations of explosions filled us with dread. Dead bodies filled the landscape.”

Alek and her family fled their village and survived in the bush, foraging for food and taking shelter in abandoned huts until they managed to escape to Khartoum, from where Alek’s mother sent her and one of her sisters to London. “I knew with all my heart that she was doing what was best for us, but that didn’t ease the pain.”

Having lost so much, education became the only thing that mattered to Alek and she was fiercely devoted to learning, despite arriving in the UK without her family intact and unable to speak English. Soon after being discovered by a model scout, Alek embarked on a successful international career in the world of high fashion. “In a matter of years, I went from a faceless refugee statistic to one of the most recognizable faces in the world.”

In addition to visiting refugees and witnessing UNHCR's frontline work, Alek has helped amplify the refugee cause through many different projects. For World Refugee Day 2016 Alek joined refugees, UNHCR staff and other high profile supporters in our video message of solidarity with forcibly displaced persons around the globe. Alek later spoke in the UN General Assembly Hall at the handing in of UNHCR’s #WithRefugees petition, the largest-ever petition for refugees, to the UN Secretary General, ahead of the historic UN Summit on Refugees & Migrants in September 2016. In December of that same year, Alek served as the face of H&M’s holiday campaign which raised $3 million for UNHCR and supported the education of refugee children.

Alek has honoured the work and staff of UNHCR by attending multiple events, including the 2016 Arab American Institute Gala where she presented the Khalil Gibran Award to our Deputy High Commissioner, Kelly Clements, who accepted on behalf of UNHCR and the 2015 German Sustainability Awards where she presented an Honorary Fellowship to then High Commissioner, Antonio Guterres. Alek also helped launch the Sustainable Development Goals at the 2015 Social Good Summit in New York.

Alek has spoken passionately about her work with UNHCR in numerous publications across many territories, including The Guardian, Marie Claire and NPR.
https://www.thefamouspeople.com/profiles/alek-wek-5617.php


Alek Wek is a famous African supermodel originally from South Sudan. During her childhood, a civil war broke out in her country, forcing her parents and eight siblings to flee the country. Her father passed away en route. After several years, the family was able to move to London together. It was here she finished her education and was discovered by a modeling scout at a party. She moved to New York the following year to sign with Ford Models. Her career has inspired many black women, like acclaimed actress Lupita Nyong’o, and forced many to reevaluate their idea of standard, Caucasian beauty. She has always been confident about herself and has been an avid learner. Her high self-esteem reflects in her work and is a source of inspiration for many. She believes the platform the modelling industry has provided her should be utilized for the greater good. She works with several charitable organizations and is the face of the ‘UN Refugee Agency’ in her native Sudan. She wants to bring into preview the harsh realities of the inmates of her country and spread awareness about the refugee crisis. Toknow more about her life and works read on the following biography


She was born to Akuol, a housewife, and Athian, an education official and was the seventh of nine children in her family. Her family grew up in extreme poverty, but Wek remembers being happy and peaceful.

She suffered from a skin condition known as psoriasis from birth until the age of 14. It cleared up because of the climate change once she moved to London with her family.

In 1985, a civil war broke out in Sudan, which caused the Wek family to flee their now dangerous home. Her father eventually died on the journey after an infection broke out in his hip due to a past surgery.

In 1991, Wek’s family finally arrived in London where Alek had a hard time adjusting to the cold climate. Bullies at school picked on her dark skin and accent. She enrolled in ‘London’s College of Fashion’ and majored in fashion business and technology.

In 1995, Wek was discovered at the age of 19 by a ‘Model 1’ scout named Fiona Ellis while she was attending a party.In 1995, she had her first big break when she appeared in Tina Turner’s music video ‘GoldenEye’.
The following year, she also made an appearance in ‘Got ‘Til It’s Gone’, a music video by Janet Jackson.
In 1996, she was signed to Ford Models, a very prestigious agency based out of New York City. Within a year of arriving in New York, she was invited to walk in Ralph Lauren’s runway show, a coveted place usually given to famous models not newbies to the business like Wek.
In 1997, she was featured on the cover of “Elle” magazine, the first African woman to have this distinction.
In 1999, she was photographed for a calendar in which the artist Joanne Gair painted her body in bright, beautiful colors.
In 2002, she made her acting debut playing a princess of Sudan in the film ‘The Four Feathers’ and starred in a campaign for the Gap.
She launched ‘wek1993’ in 2005. It is a line of handbags that are for sale in Selfridges department stores. ‘wek1993’ is dedicated to her father, named after his birth year and designed to look like the briefcases he used to carry.
In 2007, she released her book entitled ‘Alek’. In this autobiography, she tells about her history as a refugee and her struggle to be treated fairly in the industry. She admits that some of her modeling gigs have has racist undertones.
Ralph Lauren chose her to walk in his runway show within the first year of moving to New York, an unprecedented achievement for a new model. This assignment propelled her modelling career and helped her establish a strong foothold in the white-dominated industry.
In 2007, she published an autobiographical book that detailed her journey from refugee to supermodel in order to spread awareness
In 1997, she was named ‘Model of the Year’ by both ‘MTV’ and ‘i-D Magazine’. She became the first African to appear on the cover of ‘Elle’ magazine in the same year.
Channel 5 ranked her as #14 on their cumulative list of ‘World’s Greatest Supermodels’.
In 1999, she was named one of ‘People’ magazine’s ‘50 Most Beautiful People’.
In 2002, she became an advisor to the US Committee for ‘Refugees Advisory Council’ where she helps raise awareness for the issues facing Sudan and refugees around the world.

In 2003, she entered into a relationship with an Italian real estate developer named Riccardo Sala. It was reported that the pair had split up after an affair of eleven years.

In July of 2012, she returned to her home country with the ‘UN Refugee Agency’ in an effort to spread awareness of how much work must be done to rebuild this country.

In 2014, Kenyan actress Lupita Nyong’o gave a speech in which she spoke about her negative self-esteem regarding her appearance growing up. However, when she saw Wek in the media, she realized she too could be beautiful. Nyong’o has since won several awards for her work, including an Oscar.

She is still working for many charitable organizations, including ‘World Vision’, ‘UNICEF’, and ‘Doctors Without Borders’ in Sudan.
Her name means ‘Black Spotted Cow’. Ataui Deng, a celebrated runway model, is her niece.
When her mother found out she was going to sign with a modeling agency, she was horrified, thinking her daughter was going to be a ‘Page 3’ girl.
When her career first started, she was sometimes mistaken for Naomi Campbell, an entirely different looking model of Jamaican decent