“The biggest problem we all face is the story that we tell ourselves of what our lives have been. It’s keeping us in a box. The ‘cubicle’ you’re really living in is your story.”
Zach Bush, MD
The joke is on us!! We think that the rest of the world is what creates our "cubicle" in this world when it is really us that chooses the walls, windows and doors we believe we are living in. And what we believe defines how we live. Opposite realities... imagine if we all chose not to stay within the "norms" of societal expectations as people like: Mother Theresa, Greta Thunberg, Ghandi, Nelson Mandela, Einstein, Elon Musk, Mr. Rogers, the list goes on of who defined their world rather than submit to walls that made no sense to them. Sure its got to be lonely and you get persecuted, ridiculed and laughed at by people, but imagine the exhilaration of living from your deep belief and as if there were real meaning to living and not as if "security and comfort" were the big prizes.
I think we use these goals to hide ourselves from living who we really are inside because we do not trust letting our light shine differently than the crowd. This crowd is actively working to keep us in because their biggest fear is that if someone breaks out their beliefs/lives will become worth less. Then fitting in becomes our cubicle, then a habit, then it is really hard to break out from this mold. Living in this way can be a downward spiral; we hide ourselves more and more, get sadder and sadder and become "Disconnected" from ourselves. And one of the SADDEST things is that so many of us are unhappy, but then we choose to "break out" by damaging ourselves with "numbing addictions" rather than honouring our true self because we've never trusted that what We Believe could be more worthwhile living for than the endless treadmill of trying to fit in and get ahead financially and work at meaningless tasks to get more and more superficial comforts and security so in our later ages we can finally live for what we believe. And even then it seems that the habit of worrying about our security has taken over and people end up Disconnected as old people too.
p.s. On the relative merits of what We Believe, what criteria are there for these merits??? "Do unto others as you would have done unto you" comes to my mind
Zach Bush
From: https://zachbushmd.com
A decade ago I was pioneering a new approach to chemotherapy at the University of Virginia, fully believing the promise that I would become a vaunted leader in the marbled halls of academia. In 2010 the universe had a different idea for me, and I suddenly found myself struggling to start a nutrition clinic in rural Virginia, my son and I renovating an old plumbing warehouse into something resembling a clinic in a struggling town with a population of 560 people. In the years that have followed, everything that I once held to be true and obvious has been challenged when faced with the experience of the real world outside the hallowed halls of the University. Today, I remain a work in progress. I am slowly deconstructing my education and reconstructing my understanding through the lens of human experience.
Here is a podcast, rather long, but listen to the last 20 minutes
"We should surrender what we think we know if we are going to realize our full potential before we die. We need to wake the fuck up. It could get really good around here." Zach Bush
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