Thursday, February 03, 2022

Poker lessons (November 25th 2021)

 “There are many reasons why wrapping our arms around uncertainty and giving it a big hug will help us become better decision-makers. Here are two of them. First, “I’m not sure” is simply a more accurate representation of the world. Second, and related, when we accept that we can’t be sure, we are less likely to fall into the trap of black-and-white thinking.”


“Once a belief is lodged, it becomes difficult to dislodge. It takes on a life of its own, leading us to notice and seek out evidence confirming our belief, rarely challenge the validity of confirming evidence, and ignore or work hard to actively discredit information contradicting the belief. This irrational, circular information-processing pattern is called motivated reasoning. The way we process new information is driven by the beliefs we hold, strengthening them. Those strengthened beliefs then drive how we process further information, and so on.”
Annie Duke, Thinking in Bets: Making Smarter Decisions When You Don't Have All the Facts


My thoughts:
I never thought of living life like it is a poker game before, because I thought what is the point of risking everything on a game of chance. As always, thinking something is one way closes off the possibility that there is another way to think of it. Annie Duke is a former professional poker player. She won more than $4 million in tournament poker before retiring from the game. Before that she studied Cognitive Psychology. Here's the Annie Duke quote that opened  a window for me to a new depth for decision making (can't wait to try it out in some games:-)); “In most of our decisions, we are not betting against another person. Rather, we are betting against all the future versions of ourselves that we are not choosing.” 
I haven't read anything except some of her quotes yet, but you can bet with relative certainty that I will be reading Annie Duke's book and more about her and how to transform my way of reasoning from "motivated Thinking" into uncertainty in the very near future!


“If you put individuals together in the right way,
such that some individuals can use their reasoning powers to disconfirm the claims of others, 
and all individuals feel some common bond or shared fate that allows them to interact civilly, 
you can create a group that ends up producing good reasoning as an emergent property of the social system. 
This is why it’s so important to have intellectual and ideological diversity within any group or institution whose goal is to find truth.”
Annie Duke, Thinking in Bets: Making Smarter Decisions When You Don't Have All the Facts

Cheers
Jeanne

Communicate with empathy (December 2nd 2021)

 “Tolerance isn't about not having beliefs. It's about how your beliefs lead you to treat people who disagree with you.”

Timothy Keller


“Respectful communication under conflict or opposition is an essential and truly awe-inspiring ability.”
Bryant McGill, Voice of Reason


My thoughts:

Everyone deserves our respect, kindness and empathy. Not because of how they treat us or don't treat us, not because of anything they do, say or believe, but because we are all here together and if we do not give respect, kindness, and empathy to others we have no right to expect it for ourselves.

If we do not listen to people we disagree with we cannot expect them to listen to us. We all know what it is like trying to talk to someone who has already decided they know what we are saying and has prejudged it without ever really listening to us. It feels like talking to a wall.


It doesn't work to ask other people to take the risk and go out of their comfort zone to listen deeply if we keep our wall up and shut them down when they speak. We have to be listeners before we can expect to be heard. 

Every human being, of whatever origin, of whatever station, deserves respect. We must each respect others even as we respect ourselves. 

Ralph Waldo Emerson

 


Give to every other human being every right that you claim for yourself. 

Thomas Paine


“We should all consider each other as human beings, and we should respect each other.”
Malala Yousafzai

“A person’s a person, no matter how small.”
Dr. Seuss


Where to focus (December 9th 2021)

 “Anger is effortless. Kindness is hard. Try to exert yourself.”

Sue Monk Kidd, The Book of Longings

“She stood in the storm, and when the wind did not blow her way, she adjusted her sails.”
Elizabeth Edwards

"It was a little light, but she aimed it directly at the gloom of ignorance"
Maya Angelou

Cheers
Jeanne

Responsibility (December 16 2021)

 A society that values order above all else will seek to suppress curiosity. But a society that believes in progress, innovation and creativity will cultivate it, recognizing that the enquiring minds of its people constitute its most valuable asset."

Ian Leslie

My thoughts today;
Sometimes it feels like some vocal politicians and people are living in a fantasy world where "if we close our eyes it won't happen". 
What has happened to "What is Happening?" 
Sometimes it feels like people believe we are being "done to" and that there is a power beyond our control dictating that we are having a pandemic, that our social structures are breaking down and that climate change and wars are escalating.
When did we acquiesce to giving up our individual power?
Sometimes it feels like people believe he who shouts loudest is the winner
If everyone is shouting then Who is there to listen?
Sometimes it feels like freedom is our natural right
But if we defend our right by trampling other people's right what does freedom mean? 
Does entrenching ourselves in our beliefs constitute the best use of Freedom?
Does the opportunity to express our beliefs mean we don't have to listen to others??
Does the opportunity and availability of diverse information mean we get to pick what confirms our beliefs?
Does anyone out there ever slow down to recharge their brain and detach the closed ends of loops that are only serving to get us more entrenched in our own limited mindsets?

How can I ask these questions?? Because when I see them in people I know they are reflecting me. Because the only way to open my eyes is to start from within me. I am thinking out loud my own patterns, and I am trying to take responsibility for them and open my eyes, my ears, and my beliefs to ask questions and not know and also to take my power back by taking responsibility for what I put out into the world.

Bonus Quotes
You want to defend citizenship? Don't persecute or isolate those without papers. Just live like a citizen. That'd be a first-class way to be American.
Eric Liu

Nothing in life is to be feared, it is only to be understood. Now is the time to understand more, so that we may fear less.
Marie Curie

"All scientific work is incomplete - whether it be observational or experimental. All scientific work is liable to be upset or modified by advancing knowledge. That does not confer upon us a freedom to ignore the knowledge we already have, to postpone action that it appears to demand at a given time."
Naomi Oreskes

“While the idea of equal time for opposing opinions makes sense in a two-party political system, it does not work for science, because science is not about opinion. It is about evidence.”
Naomi Oreskes, Merchants of Doubt: How a Handful of Scientists Obscured the Truth on Issues from Tobacco Smoke to Global Warming

It is better to keep your mouth closed and let people think you are a fool than to open it and remove all doubt.
Mark Twain

“There's no perk in being closed-minded as a minority. It's never, ever, ever going to help you, ever.”
Baratunde R. Thurston, How to Be Black

Cheers
Jeanne

Thank you (December 23rd 2021)

 "Kindness in words creates confidence. Kindness in thinking creates profoundness. Kindness in giving creates love."

Lao Tzu

“Do what you feel in your heart to be right – for you’ll be criticized anyway.”
Eleanor Roosevelt

“Love can often be misguided and do as much harm as good, but respect can do only good. It assumes that the other person's stature is as large as one's own, his rights as reasonable, his needs as important.”
Eleanor Roosevelt, You Learn by Living: Eleven Keys for a More Fulfilling Life

My thoughts;
Thank you for staying connected and reading these messages. My life has been blessed by meeting and knowing many different people from different places who have enriched my life in many ways, not the least of which is your willingness to stay connected as the weeks, months and years pass.

For as many Thursday mornings as I can remember I have indulged myself in looking for quotes, reading at least dozens each time and exploring authors, concepts and thoughts to come up with what I choose to share with you each week. This is a pleasurable challenge that has many side benefits for me. One I hadn't recognized until now is the clarity I am getting of my own sense of purpose through reflecting on the values represented in quotes, and that this weekly activity is strengthening what I know about myself and who I want to be.  It has been a process for me to trust that what I think is worth sharing (though sometimes it may not be, but I trust my intentions)

I'm realizing that having the courage to live up to my beliefs gives my life more meaning. The courage to speak when my gut feeling tells me it is okay or important to express my thoughts out loud, while accepting that they will not always be understood or agreed with. At times I take a big gulp before hitting Send for these Thursday messages because I understand they may be a stretch or a challenge for some, and that I may be sacrificing my desire to be liked and accepted by all. Often before I send them I go outside and look at the trees for a few minutes to breathe and regain perspective. And since the trees are still there, acting as trees, I get that I can be me.

I think about what I read, examine what I believe and evaluate my values. This helps me become the me that is like a tree; the me that acts like me because I know intrinsically all this important stuff about what makes me feel alive. I go through scenarios where I am the hero who faces my fear and leaps because to do anything less corrodes my belief in myself. I wonder what I'd do if I were to witness injustice being done such as those we hear and see in the media; what I'd do if I were on the street at the time George Floyd was being restrained, on a bus when some scared kid was being attacked, in an underground parking lot where a woman was being raped, at a park where someone was mistreating an animal... I am grateful that I have not been in any of these situations, but this leaves me wondering whether my values or my fears would determine my response. 

Yet my values are being tested everyday against more insidious abuses, the ones that others laugh at you for if you make a big deal of them, the nearly acceptable norms or the on the edge behaviour that we let go because it was a friend or because making waves might make it worse, or the ones that we are embarrassed to speak out loud or admit we've been less than honest about. The bullying that can happen anywhere by anyone, including people who I care for and respect. I even have to face that, it could be me being the bully. Abuse and meanness can be overt or covert and unless I choose to be vigilant and aware, to challenge that behaviour by anyone, anytime and anywhere, I am devaluing my values. Fear, laziness, ignorance, greed, etc., can act like a virus attacking my value system, each time I acquiesce to any of these they gain strength and my self esteem weakens.

If I do not have the conviction of my values and do not have the courage to face my fears I cannot do the kindness I want, I cannot do what my heart knows is right, I am not living with integrity and I will be defined more by what I don't do rather than what I do. My character is nothing if I do not stand up for what I believe.

"Know what's important and what isn't. Have the wisdom to know the right thing to do, the integrity to do it, the character to stand up to those who don't, and the courage to stop those who won't."
Mark Goulston

I wish you all a healthy, safe, warm, courageous Merry Christmas and I hope we can all share the miracle of kindness with ourselves, our families and friends, our communities, strangers, trees, the Earth, those we fear, and those we disagree with.

Thank you and warmest regards to you all
xo
Jeanne

Happy New Year (Dec 30th 2021)

 It has been said that love is a function of communication. I believe that to be true. I believe, by extension, that human understanding is a function of communication. And the better human beings understand one another, the higher the level of functioning.

Dan Pallotta; Dan Pallotta: The way we think about charity is dead wrong | TED Talk

“You’ll never change a community you don’t know, and you can’t begin to know a community until you hear, feel, taste and tramp through it.”
Robert Egger: Begging for Change: The dollars and sense of making non profits responsive, efficient and rewarding for all

"The future of every community lies in capturing the passion, imagination, and resources of its people."
Ernesto Sirolli

Thoughts for entering 2022

It seems to me that change will never happen when we are busy trying to patch up problems created by doing things the way we've always done them. The end of a year is a special time to reflect on our blessings and be grateful. 

I am thinking about where I can make a difference and take actions that will make people/someone feel heard, recognized, empowered, and valued. It does not matter if what I do is a drop in the bucket, a shot in the dark or a dead flop. We are like stars in the sky, billions of tiny lights, each different and each a part of a galaxy, and with billions of galaxies in the universe what difference does a tiny star make?? If all the stars grow dim our universe will be dark. I want my energy to keep my star burning bright because to do anything less is to waste the gift of life I've been given. 

I wish for all a healthy, safe, sharing, empowering, opportunity filled, energizing, exciting, warm, loving, giving and Happy New Year!!
Jeanne

“ALL of my models take things our society thinks aren’t pretty, or important—bruised fruit, bent veggies, felons, addicts, and older people—and we reveal their true beauty and value. In our kitchen, all food has power, and all people have potential.”
Robert Egger

“Wrinkled food or wrinkled people, the idea is to show that just because someone or something has a bruise, blemish, or wrinkle doesn’t mean that it doesn’t have an important role in strengthening our society. The goal is to look past the superficial and dig deep to reach the potential.”
Robert Egger

The future isn’t about how many pounds of food you move, but how you utilize every ounce to liberate, empower or uplift.
Robert Egger

Let go the load, lighten up! (January 15th)

 "Sometimes the questions are complicated and the answers are simple.”

Dr Seuss

My today thoughts
Time to lighten up, to let go of needing to know, to stop allowing myself to get seduced into needing to figure out things that there is no neat, absolute answer to. Time to be content to learn what I can, where I can, how I can without needing the answers and getting bogged down discussing what and who to blame for things in this pandemic and crazy world and be content to do the best that I can. 
No matter how much sense we can make of what is happening externally, today is the only today we will have in our lives so it is a good day to live in!!  

"In this world there are very few things made from logic alone. It is illogical for man to be too logical. Some things we must just let stand. The mystery is more important than any possible explanation." 
Bryce Courtenay

"Life is all beginnings and ends. Nothing stays the same, lad."
Bryce Courtenay

"It's nothing to be ashamed of. There comes a time in everything when you don't know something."
Bryce Courtenay

Searching quotes on a gloomy January morning I came across these from Dr Seuss that were too apropo to thinking not to share:

"Think left and think right and think low and think high.
Oh, the thinks you can think up if only you try!”

"You have brains in your head. You have feet in your shoes. You can steer yourself any direction you choose."

"You’ll miss the best things if you keep your eyes shut.”

"From there to here, and here to there, funny things are everywhere.”

"If things start happening, don’t worry, don’t stew, just go right along and you’ll start happening too.”

Cheers
Jeanne

Spelling Tuesday (January 20th)

 Quotes from Winnie the Pooh are good any time, but as January 18th was A.A.Milne's birthday and a random reminder popped up on my screen you were destined to get some wisdom from Winnie today.


“Spelling isn’t everything. There are days when spelling Tuesday simply doesn’t count.”
A.A. Milne - Winnie The Pooh
Well thank you for this! I spend way too much time trying to do things when they don't need doing at the time ... 

“Before beginning a Hunt, it is wise to ask someone what you are looking for before you begin looking for it.”
WWtP
I trust this needs no interpretation

"When you are a bear of very little brain, and you think of things, you find sometimes that a thing which seemed very thinkish inside you is quite different when it gets out into the open and has other people looking at it.”
WWtP
Trick: get the thinks into the open before spending much time on it.

"If the person you are talking to doesn’t appear to be listening, be patient. It may simply be that he has a small piece of fluff in his ear.”
WWtP
Sometimes it is just that simple

"A hug is always the right size."
Winnie the Pooh

Cheers
Jeanne

Sand and secrets (January 27th)

 “We take a handful of sand from the endless landscape of awareness around us and call that handful of sand the world.”


We say this is the way it is because this is the way it always was and we leave it at that but ... there is always much, much more.

“And above all, watch with glittering eyes the whole world around you because the greatest secrets are always hidden in the most unlikely places. Those who don't believe in magic will never find it.”
Roald Dahl

Cheers
Jeanne

What is the Answer and what the heck is the question? (January 6 2022)

 "Doing the right thing is not the problem, knowing what the right thing is, that's the challenge"

Lyndon B Johnson

"It is a mistake to suppose that there is always a single right answer to every moral dilemma."
Richard Norman

My thoughts;

2022 has begun and, although the change to a new calendar year feels like a divide between an old and a new, an opportune time to make change, it is merely another day in a life. Each change of day, change of hour, change of minute, change of second is a divide if I look at time as something that separates now from then, past from future, missed opportunity or potential for change.

What has time to do with Moral and Ethical challenges? 

Everything! In the future I will know the result of my action. This will determine the relative value of my decisions, but it does not help me now. Despite my intention for 2022 to stop worrying and accept I cannot be perfect and make everyone happy I am waking up at night worrying about the impact of choices I have made and need to make. Despite my intention to be the boss of my mind I am still ruminating over the potential consequences and fall out of alternative choices and what is the "right" thing to do. 

Choices need to be made in the flow, I can't wait to see what happens before I do something or I won't sleep. And, sadly, just because there is a time change my decisions do not become automatically better or wiser. The only way my decisions become better or wiser is because I can learn from them. And if I don't see any right answer the challenge is to determine, from my experience, what I believe is the best choice in the circumstances and then take responsibility for the results. 

How do I live with myself if the results turn out to hurt people I admire and care for or to make things harder for people already working hard ... I don't know... these are difficult decisions. I think of all the what ifs, and go in circles, I accept that is my process. Is there an absolute right and wrong... well that question takes me down a long and winding rabbit hole with many branching tunnels that I'm not going to explore today. While I may not make the same decision tomorrow or in 2023, right now my decision has to be based on my motives. If there is no absolute right or wrong then my moral compass has to be my guide. 

Sheesh I just want to retreat to the trees and their patience, and live in forest time. I know that today's issues will be resolved and there will be new ones tomorrow and this only matters now. This moment my experience and heart send me in one direction and my what ifs another. 

What would a tree do? Be! If a tree grows too tall and gets hit by lightning that just is. The tree recovers or not, changes course and grows stronger or continues stunted and weak. 

My choices today are not life or death. They are not as dramatic or life altering as being struck by lightning (I hope). I will close my eyes, hold my breath and plug my nose for a couple seconds, then jump where my heart and my concerns for the greater good take me. I will live with my choice and deal with the resulting choices with more experience and more sleep I hope.

Wishing you all the joy living in the Flow!! This is a very alive, learning, growing place to be, definitely not boring:-)

Cheers
Jeanne

Sense of an Owl

 "We all want the complicated world we live in to make sense. So we tell ourselves stories to fill in the gaps of what are effectively blind spots.”

Morgan Housel, The Psychology of Money

I listened to The Psychology of Money on a long road trip recently. Besides being an interesting read with practical examples and advice about wealth and investing The Psychology of Money offers a look at why and how our experience and reactions determine the stories we choose to make up to explain things we don't understand. 

“wise old owl lived in an oak,
The more he saw the less he spoke,
The less he spoke, the more he heard,
Why aren’t we all like that wise old bird?”
Morgan Housel, The Psychology of Money

Cheers
Jeanne


Thursday, November 18, 2021

Success - from October 14th

 Success comes from curiosity, concentration, perseverance and self-criticism.

Albert Einstein

Be not the slave of your own past – plunge into the sublime seas, dive deep, and swim far, so you shall come back with new self-respect, with new power, and with an advanced experience that shall explain and overlook the old. Ralph Waldo Emerson

"There is nothing noble in being superior to your fellow men. True nobility lies in being superior to your former self."
Ernest Hemingway
 
Always searching, never there
Every day the opportunity to try to be better than we were yesterday

Cheers
Jeanne

Plant Trees - from October 21st

 "Trees are alive, so we react to them in very different ways. Quite often, we get attached to a tree .... It is such a friendly thing. When you plant a tree and you see it grow, something happens to you. You want to protect it, and you value it."

Wangari Maathai

Today's quote is taken from a speech (copied below) by Wangari Maathai titled Speak Truth to Power
I came across The Green Belt Movement, founded in 1977 by Wangari Maathai, while looking for tree planting initiatives around the world. As I read about the organization I became intrigued to learn more about Wangari and thus discovered her Memoir; Unbowed. 
From the publisher: "Unbowed is the moving and inspirational memoir of the first African woman, and the first environmentalist, to win the Nobel Peace Prize, Wangari Maathai. Unbowed charts Maathai's development from a young girl in British Kenya to a divorced mother of three fighting to save her country from a dictator and his corruption"

Some more Wangari Maathai quotes:

"What People See As Fearlessness Is Really Persistence. Because I Am Focused On The Solution, I Don't See The Danger."

“We are called to assist the Earth to heal her wounds and in the process heal our own.”
"The environment and the economy are really two sides of the same coin. If we cannot sustain the environment we cannot sustain ourselves" 

“You cannot protect the environment unless you empower people, you inform them, and you help them understand that these resources are their own, that they must protect them.” 

"It's the little things citizens do. That's what will make the difference. My little thing is planting trees"

The Green Belt Movement (GBM) is an environmental organization that empowers communities, particularly women, to conserve the environment and improve livelihoods. GBM was founded by Professor Wangari Maathai in 1977 under the auspices of the National Council of Women of Kenya (NCWK) to respond to the needs of rural Kenyan women who reported that their streams were drying up, their food supply was less secure, and they had to walk further and further to get firewood for fuel and fencing. GBM encouraged the women to work together to grow seedlings and plant trees to bind the soil, store rainwater, provide food and firewood, and receive a small monetary token for their work.)


Speak Truth to Power

By Wangari Maathai
Speak Truth to Power
May 4, 2000

This article is taken from Speak Truth to Power, a book on activists around the world and edited by Kerry Kennedy. The book has become an organisation that fights for human rights around the world.

Throughout Africa (as in much of the world) women hold primary responsibility for tilling the fields, deciding what to plant, nurturing the crops, and harvesting the food. They are the first to become aware of environmental damage that harms agricultural production: if the well goes dry, they are the ones concerned about finding new sources of water and those who must walk long distances to fetch it. As mothers, they notice when the food they feed their family is tainted with pollutants or impurities: they can see it in the tears of their children and hear it in their babies’ cries.

Wangari Maathai, Kenya’s foremost environmentalist and women’s rights advocate, founded the Green Belt Movement on Earth Day, 1977, encouraging the farmers (70 percent of whom are women) to plant “Green Belts” to stop soil erosion, provide shade, and create a source of lumber and firewood. She distributed seedlings to rural women and set up an incentive system for each seedling that survived. To date, the movement has planted over fifteen million trees, produced income for eighty thousand people in Kenya alone, and has expanded its efforts to over thirty African countries, the United States, and Haiti.

Maathai won the Africa Prize for her work in preventing hunger, and was heralded by the Kenyan government and controlled press as an exemplary citizen. A few years later, when Maathai denounced President Daniel arap Moi’s proposal to erect a sixty-two-story skyscraper in the middle of Nairobi’s largest park (graced by a four-story statue of Moi himself), officials warned her to curtail her criticism. When she took her campaign public, she was visited by security forces. When she still refused to be silenced, she was subjected to a harassment campaign and threats. Members of parliament denounced Maathai, dismissing her organisation as “a bunch of divorcees.” The government-run newspaper questioned her sexual past, and police detained and interrogated her, without ever pressing charges. Eventually Moi was forced to forego the project, in large measure because of the pressure Maathai successfully generated.

Years later, when she returned to the park to lead a rally on behalf of political prisoners, Maathai was hospitalised after pro-government thugs beat her and other women protesters. Following the incident, Moi’s ruling party parliamentarians threatened to mutilate her genitals in order to force Maathai to behave “like women should.” But Wangari Maathai was more determined than ever, and today continues her work for environmental protection, women’s rights, and democratic reform. From one seedling, an organisation for empowerment and political participation has grown many strong branches. — Kerry Kennedy

The Green Belt Movement in Kenya started in 1977, when women from rural areas and urban centers, reflecting on their needs at organised forums, spoke about environmental degradation. They did not have firewood. They needed fruits to cure malnutrition in their children. They needed clean drinking water, but the pesticides and herbicides used on farms to grow cash crops polluted the water.

The women talked about how, a long time ago, they did not have to spend so much time going out to collect firewood, that they lived near the forest. They spoke of how, once, they ate food that sustained their health. Now, while the food does not require much energy to grow, it does not sustain them. The women feel their families are now very weak and cannot resist diseases, that their bodies are impoverished because of an environment that is degraded.

The National Council of Women, a nongovernmental organisation, responded by encouraging them to plant trees. In the beginning it was difficult because the women felt that they had neither the knowledge, the technology, nor the capital to do this. But, we quickly showed them that we did not need all of that to plant trees, which made the tree-planting process a wonderful symbol of hope. Tree-planting empowered these women because it was not a complicated thing. It was something that they could do and see the results of. They could, by their own actions, improve the quality of their lives.

When we said we wanted to plant fifteen million trees, a forester laughed and said we could have as many seedlings as we wanted because he was convinced that we could not plant that many trees. Before too long, he had to withdraw that offer because we were collecting more trees than he could give away free of charge. But we didn’t have the money. We decided that we could produce the seedlings ourselves. We would go and collect seeds from trees, come back and plant them the way women did other seeds: beans, corn, and other grains. And so the women actually developed forestry management techniques, using “appropriate technology” to fit their needs. Here is the basic method: take a pot, put in the soil, and put in the seeds. Put the pot in an elevated position so that the chickens and the goats don’t come and eat the seedlings.

Ordaining all the inventive techniques that the women developed. For example, sometimes trees produce seeds carried by the wind. These germinate in the fields with the first rain. It was very interesting to see a woman cultivating a field with a small container of water. But, she was cultivating weeds! She had learned that among these weeds were also tree seedlings, and that she could pick the seedlings and put them in a container. In the evening, she went home with several hundred seedling trees! These techniques developed by the women became extremely helpful. We planted more than twenty million trees in Kenya alone. In other African countries, we have not kept records.

Trees are alive, so we react to them in very different ways. Quite often, we get attached to a tree, because it gives us food and fodder for our fires. It is such a friendly thing. When you plant a tree and you see it grow, something happens to you. You want to protect it, and you value it. I have seen people really change and look at trees very differently from the way they would in the past. The other thing is that a lot of people do not see that there are no trees until they open their eyes, and realise that the land is naked. They begin to see that while rain can be a blessing, it can also be a curse, because when it comes and you have not protected your soil, it carries the soil away with it! And this is rich soil in which you should be growing your food. They see the immediate relationship between a person and the environment. It is wonderful to see that transformation, and that is what sustains the movement!

We have started programmes in about twenty countries. The main focus is how ordinary people can be mobilised to do something for the environment. It is mainly an education programme, and implicit in the action of planting trees is a civic education, a strategy to empower people and to give them a sense of taking their destiny into their own hands, removing their fear, so that they can stand up for themselves and for their environmental rights. The strategy we use is a strategy that we call the “wrong bus syndrome,” a simple analogy to help people conceive what is going on. People come to see us with a lot of problems: they have no food, they are hungry, their water is dirty, their infrastructure has broken down, they do not have water for their animals, they cannot take their children to school. The highest number of problems I have recorded at a sitting of about a hundred people is one hundred and fifty. They really think we are going to solve their problems. I just write them down, but I am not going to do anything about them. I just write them down in order to give the people a feeling of relief and a forum where they can express their problems.

After we list these problems, we ask, “Where do you think these problems come from?” Some people blame the government, fingering the governor or the president or his ministers. Blame is placed on the side that has the power. The people do not think that they, themselves, may be contributing to the problem. So, we use the bus symbol (because it is a very common method of transportation in the country). If you go onto the wrong bus, you end up at the wrong destination. You may be very hungry because you do not have any money. You may, of course, be saved by the person you were going to visit, but you may also be arrested by the police for hanging around and looking like you are lost! You may be mugged—anything can happen to you! We ask the people, “What could possibly make you get on the wrong bus? How can you walk into a bus station and instead of taking the right bus, take the wrong one?” Now, this is a very ordinary experience. The most common reason for people to be on the wrong bus is that they do not know how to read and write. If you are afraid, you can get onto the wrong bus. If you are arrogant, if you think you know it all, you can easily make a mistake and get onto the wrong bus. If you are not mentally alert, not focussed. There are many reasons.

After we go through this exercise, we ask them to look at all the problems that they have listed. Why are we hungry? Why are we harassed by the police? We cannot hold meetings without a license. When we look at all of this, we realise that we are in the wrong bus. We have been misinformed for too long. The history of Kenya in the last forty years explains why.

During the Cold War period, our government became very dictatorial. There was only one radio station that gave out controlled information and our country was misinformed. Because the government was so oppressive, fear was instilled in us, and we very easily got onto the wrong bus. We made mistakes and created all of these problems for ourselves. We did not look at the environment and decide to plant trees, so our land was washed away by the rain! The beautiful topsoil was lost. Maybe we were not fully focussed, suffered from alcoholism, or were not working, but our personal problems had nothing to do with government. We got on the wrong bus and a lot of bad things happened. What we needed to do was to decide to get out, only to make the best of the situation you find yourself in.

You need to take action. You have to inform yourself. And you are willing to inquire; you are willing to learn. That is why you came to the seminar. You want to plant, you want to empower yourself. You have every right to read what you want to read. You want to meet—without asking permission. To get off the bus means to control the direction of your own life.

We say to go ahead and start to plant trees. Grow and produce enough food for your family. Get in the food security project, making sure that you plant a lot of indigenous food crops so that we do not lose local biodiversity. We are working in the tropics so the trees grow very fast. In five years, or less, you can have fruit trees, like banana trees. You can go and teach others what you have learned here so that you will have educational outreach in the village. We will support you, so that you can encourage others to get off the bus. You can get a small group of people to protect a park or a forest or an open space near you. Environmental protection is not just about talking. It is also about taking action.

People who live near the forest are among the first to see that the forest is being destroyed. People who live near water resources are the ones who notice that these springs are being interfered with. People who are farmers recognise that the soil is being exposed and carried away by the rains. These are the people who should be the ones to draw attention to these problems at the local and national levels.

And this is the process I have seen with the Green Belt Movement. Women who start to plant trees on their farms influence their neighbors. The neighbors eventually become involved. At the national level, we have been able to draw the attention of the parliament, and even the president, to the need to protect the environment! And now, we see the government reacting to what the environmentalists are saying: that the remaining forest not be degraded, that open spaces not be privatised, and that the forest not be interfered with or privatised. This pressure is coming from ordinary people. We started by empowering women. Then the men joined in because they saw that the women were doing some very positive work.

A lot of men participate in the planting, though not in the nurturing of the seedlings at the nursery as the women do (and do very well). The men see trees as an economic investment. They look thirty years into the future and see that they will have huge trees to sell. Well, nevertheless, it means that the Green Belt Movement enjoys the participation of men, women, and children, which is important. You could very easily have the women planting trees and the men cutting the trees down! Everyone needs to work together and to protect the environment together.

When you start doing this work, you do it with a very pure heart, out of compassion. Listen to the statement from our pamphlet: “The main objective of this organisation is to raise the consciousness of our people to the level which moves them to do the right things for the environment because their hearts have been touched and their minds convinced to do the right things, because it is the only logical thing to do.”

The clarity of what you ought to do gives you courage, removes the fear, gives you the courage to ask. There is so much you do not know. And you need to know. And it helps you get your mind focussed. Now, you are out of the bus and moving to the right direction. They will see you move with passion, conviction, and persistence. You are very focussed. Quite often you threaten people, either people who are on the wrong bus or people who are driving others, because you know they are driving people in the wrong direction and you are asking them not to follow. And now you feel free to tell people, “Believe me, you are all moving in the wrong direction, your leader as well.” Now, of course, a leader does not want to be told this. He certainly does not want to hear that the people he is driving, are being told they need to get out of the bus. This is where the conflict comes in. The leader accuses you of misleading his people, misrepresenting his vision, misrepresenting what he’s trying to do, misrepresenting him.

This is what happened between me and President Moi. In 1989, the president wanted to take over Uhuru Park, the only park left in Nairobi. He was going to build the highest building in Africa, sixty-two stories. Next to the skyscraper he was going to put a four-story statue of himself (so you could pat his head from the fourth floor). All of downtown Nairobi would have had to be restructured.

That building would have been so intimidating, that even if some land in the small park remained, no one would have dared come near it. Very intimidating. So it was completely wrong. It also would have been an economic disaster, as was borrowing money to do it, putting us in greater debt. It was truly a white elephant. But he wanted it because it was a personal aggrandisement.

And so we raised objections, and said this was the only park that we had in the city where people who have no money could come. Not even a policeman could ask you to move; it was an open space. A lot of people joined in and agreed, even those people who were going to invest, who then decided that it was probably not a very good idea.

We staged a protest in the park and were beaten by the police. We were only a small group of women, because, at that time, in 1989, there was a lot of fear. I had taken the matter to court, arguing that this park belonged to the people and that it could not be privatised. The president was only a public trustee, so for him to now go and take what had been entrusted to him, to take it, and privatise it, was criminal. We lost the case, which in the court meant that we had no business raising the issue and complaining about the park. But we won in the end because those who were providing the money withdrew, due to the outcry from the public. And members of parliament actually suspended business to discuss the Green Belt Movement and myself, recommending that the Green Belt Movement should be banned as a subversive organisation. They did a lot of dirty campaigning to discredit us, including dismissing us as, “a bunch of divorcées and irresponsible women.”

Well, I gave them a piece of my mind, that people kept talking about for the rest of the time. “Whatever else you may think about the women who run the Green Belt Movement,” I said, “we are dealing here with privatising or not privatising a public park. We are dealing with the rights of the public and the rights of the people. These are the kind of issues that require the anatomy of whatever lies above the neck.” The press loved it. Parliament was just being mean, chauvinistic, and downright dirty. Fortunately, my skin is thick, like an elephant’s. The more they abused and ridiculed me, the more they hardened me. I know I was right, and they were wrong.

A few years later, in 1992, with about ten women whose sons had been detained for demanding more democratic rights for the people, I went back to the same park and declared it “freedom corner.” We stayed there for four days. By the fifth day the government brought in policemen; some of us were very badly beaten. But I will always remember the power of those women. After we were disrupted by the police, I ended up in the hospital, so I didn’t even know what was going on. The other women were herded into cars and forced to go back to where they had come. But the following day, those women came back to Nairobi and tried to locate the others. They knew some were in the hospital, and sent a message that they were waiting for us. They would not go home. Instead, they went to the Anglican provost of All Saint’s Cathedral who told them they could go to the crypt and wait for the other women. Though the provost thought this would be a two-night stay, it lasted for one year. They stayed in that crypt, waiting for Moi to release their sons. The authorities tried everything to get the women to leave. They tried to bribe some of them; intimidated them; even sent some of their sons to persuade their mothers to leave. Several times we were surrounded by armed policemen, who threatened to break the doors of the church and to haul us out. Fortunately they never did, because some of these soldiers were Christians, and we could hear them say they just could not break into the church.

And we won again! It was a great ceremony to see those young men come out of jail and also to celebrate the powers of their mothers. It was really wonderful. I was amazed that they were so strong. It goes to show that you can have a very oppressive government, but even in very dark times in our nation, there were people who stood up to protect the rights of others.

There was another time when the pro-democracy movement pushed the president very far. Rumors started circulating that he was going to turn the government over to the army. And so we issued a statement saying that if he felt there was a need for change in the government (which we were demanding), what we wanted was a general election, but not to turn over power to the army, because this was not democratic.

Instead of responding, he arrested us for inciting people to violence. I went into my house and locked myself in because I was so convinced that no one could get me out—it had been so reinforced for security. Unless I became hungry, I had enough to last me for a month. They surrounded the house with guns and it was very, very scary. I was one woman alone. After three days, they broke into the house, literally cutting the windows so that they could reach me, and they hauled me to jail. That was 1993, when we were really breaking loose from a very strong dictatorship.

Courage. I guess that the nearest it means is not having fear. Fear is the biggest enemy you have. I think you can overcome your fear when you no longer see the consequences. When I do what I do, when I am writing letters to the president, accusing him of every crime on this earth, of being a violator of every right I know of, especially violating environmental rights and then of violence to women, I must have courage.

You know, when they attack me, I say this is violence against women. When they threaten me with female genital mutilation, this is violence against women. When they attack me, I attack them back. A lot of people say, “They could kill you.” And I say, “Yes, they could, but if you focus on the damage they could do, you cannot function. Don’t visualise the danger you can get in. Your mind must be blank as far as danger is concerned.” This helps you to go on. You look very courageous to people—and maybe you are courageous. But it is partly because you cannot see the fear they see. You are not projecting that you could be killed, that you could die. You are not projecting that they could cut your leg. If you do that, you stop. It’s not like I see danger coming, and I feel danger. At this particular moment, I am only seeing one thing—that I am moving in the right direction.

Cheers
Jeanne


Listen and shush - from October 28th

 “Just because you don't understand it doesn't mean it isn't so.”

Lemony Snicket, The Blank Book

Here's my thoughts:

Listen, 
and when we think we are listening
Listen some more,
and when we think we are listening more
Listen deeper
And when we think we know
Shut up and listen!

As soon as we think we know something we close ourselves off to learning anything new.

Cheers
Jeanne


Suffering- One Moment In Time from Nov 11th

 “Nobody will protect you from your suffering. You can't cry it away or eat it away or starve it away or walk it away or punch it away or even therapy it away. It's just there, and you have to survive it. You have to endure it. You have to live through it and love it and move on and be better for it and run as far as you can in the direction of your best and happiest dreams across the bridge that was built by your own desire to heal.”

Cheryl Strayed

A song sent to be by a friend has stuck with me this week
I'm not putting in the link, you can google it to listen, the lyrics and some background about the song are below. The version sent to me was by Dana Winner who is a Belgian singer, famous especially in Flanders, South Africa and the Netherlands. It was originally sung by Whitney Houston for the 1998 Olympic. Both versions are inspiring and beautiful to watch!
Dana Winner - One Moment in Time video
Whitney Houston - One Moment In Time (Official HD Video)

One moment in Time
Each day I live
I want to be a day to give the best of me
I'm only one, but not alone
My finest day is yet unknown
I broke my heart for ev'ry gain
To taste the sweet, I face the pain
I rise and fall, yet through it all this much remains
I want one moment in time
When I'm more than I thought I could be
When all of my dreams
Are a heart beat away
And the answers are all up to me
Give me one moment in time
When I'm racing with destiny
Then in that one moment of time
I will feel, I will feel eternity
I've lived to be the very best
And I want it all, no time for less
And I've laid the plans
Now lay the chance here in my hands
Give me one moment in time
When I'm more than I thought I could be
When all of my dreams
Are a heart beat away
And the answers are all up to me
Give me one moment in time
When I'm racing with destiny
Then in that one moment of time
I will feel, I will feel eternity
You're a winner for a lifetime
If you seize that one moment in time
Make it shine
Give me
One moment in time
When I'm more than I thought I could be
When all of my dreams
Are a heart beat away
And the answers are all up to me
Give me one moment in time
When I'm racing with destiny
Then in that one moment of time
I will be, I will be free
I will be free
I will be
I will be free

About One Moment in Time (Wikepedia)
"One Moment in Time" is a sentimental ballad by American singer Whitney Houston and written by Albert Hammond and John Bettis, produced by Narada Michael Walden for the 1988 Summer Olympics held in Seoul, South Korea. It was released by Arista Records on August 27, 1988, as the first single from the compilation album, 1988 Summer Olympics Album: One Moment in Time, the soundtrack to the games.

The song's melody was inspired by the timeless figure of Elvis Presley, with Hammond imagining it as being sung by Presley at the opening of the Olympics. It appeared on the album 1988 Summer Olympics Album: One Moment in Time, produced in conjunction with NBC Sports' coverage of the Seoul games and which, in addition to Whitney Houston who sang it live at the main ceremony, also featured artists such as: The Four Tops, The Bee Gees, Eric Carmen, Taylor Dayne and the film composer John Williams. The track is an anthem for believing in yourself against all odds as Houston asks for "One moment in time/when I'm racing with destiny/Then, in that one moment of time, I will feel eternity."

Cheers
Jeanne


Choose kind - From Nov 4th

 "It's not our job to play judge and jury, to determine who is worthy of our kindness and who is not. We just need to be kind, unconditionally and without ulterior motive even - or rather, especially - when we'd prefer not to be."

Josh Radnor

My thoughts today;
I'm so full of gratitude I could sing! Monday I hurt my leg and spent a few hours in Emergency at the hospital. After a few hours Monday and a return visit for a few more hours Tuesday (most of these hours spent waiting in lines) I left feeling gratitude for the kindness, compassion, patience and professional care that I received. During the time I spent there I thought a lot about how fortunate I am. In many places in the world this care would be a huge expense if it was even available, and for me to have access to this care within a half hour drive is even more rare.
My gratitude is for so much more than just being on the mend. In those lines I saw small acts of kindness amidst frustration, anger and even fear. It's a levelling experience, being in a line up for emergency treatment and I thank the universe I had the option to be there. 

"We are so vocal about what we hate."
Josh Radnor

"We're like a gardener with a hose and our attention is water - we can water flowers or we can water weeds."
Josh Radnor

I'm fine by the way... just another little booboo in the life of a happy farmer.

Cheers
Jeanne

Laugh instead

 "There is no defense against adverse fortune which is so effectual as an habitual sense of humor."

Thomas Wentworth Higginson

The language is old but the message is timeless! "Woe is me" may be a sympathy getter for a few minutes, but in terms of moving past our woes, a sense of humour and not taking ourselves too seriously is much more practical. I have many examples of this from experience, but couldn't choose between them ... It is hard to look deeply at past struggles and not see them with more context, recognizing that the situation could have been better resolved with less emotion and that the determination to be right creates some mighty big conflicts that obstruct any meaningful resolution (although some would be excellent comedy material). 

Interesting to me is that this quote came from a guy who had a very intense life and career. Unitarian minister, militant abolitionist, soldier. Reading about him on Wikipedia I get no sense he had a shred of humour, but I love to think he did and that was what kept him sane and solid while standing up against the atrocities and inequities of slavery and war. 

On a totally different topic, check this out about trees, I'm on day 1 and it is a good refresher, and I'm anticipating learning something new: 


Here are a couple excerpts from Wikipedia:
 
Thomas Wentworth Higginson (December 22, 1823 – May 9, 1911) was an American Unitarian minister, author, abolitionist, and soldier. He was active in the American Abolitionism movement during the 1840s and 1850s, identifying himself with disunion and militant abolitionism. He was a member of the Secret Six who supported John Brown. During the Civil War, he served as colonel of the 1st South Carolina Volunteers, the first federally authorized black regiment, from 1862 to 1864.[1] Following the war, Higginson devoted much of the rest of his life to fighting for the rights of freed people, women and other disfranchised peoples.

Civil War years[edit]
During the early part of the Civil War, Higginson was a captain in the 51st Massachusetts Infantry from November 1862 to October 1864, when he was retired because of a wound received in the preceding August. He was colonel of the First South Carolina Volunteers, the first authorized regiment recruited from freedmen for Union military service.[2] Secretary of War Edwin M. Stanton required that black regiments be commanded by white officers. "We, their officers, did not go there to teach lessons, but to receive them," Higginson wrote. "There were more than a hundred men in the ranks who had voluntarily met more dangers in their escape from slavery than any of my young captains had incurred in all their lives."[26]

CheersJeanne